Hey guys. In a couple of days, it's gonna be my first time clubbing. I'm going to an all ages event with all my friends, who have been clubbing for a couple of years. I am 16 years old.

I am a little nervous since it's my first time. I need some help with the basic idea of pickup up girls in all ages clubs. From what I hear, it is easy: you just ask them to dance and then eventually kiss close. I'd love to hear your tips and advice on how to be relaxed and confident when approaching and how not to get down by rejection.

It would be great if I had a couple of canned openers to help me get going, so share any that you think would work on 15-18 year old girls.

The club is tough as some girls have guys or some just wanna dance with their friends for a period of time. As soon as you see a girl alone, pounce. Club game isnt hard and 15-18 year olds dont need that much effort in terms of pickin up. Just take her hand, and say "Hey lets dance!". From there its just kino escalation, move down with your hands around her thighs, hips, and you know the rest. Most importantly, when your not dancing with a chick, have fun. Dance with other people, be laughing. Girls will be naturally attracted to that.

A couple openers for girls that arent dancing:

"Every guy here has been checkin you out, so I wanted to make em a bit jealous and say hey!"

"Why aren't you girls/you dancing? Dont tell me your boring!"

Allright man, I'll brief you. I'm 17 myself and have clubbing experience. In a club it's all about peacocking. If you're tall or good-looking it will help. In anyway, wear a shirt, preferably a brightly colored shirt. Blazer is optional. Dark jeans, and no sneakers, wear black tidy shoes. This will make you look mature.

The strategy:
Basically what I do is walk around for a bit 'scouting', see if you get any good eye contact, if you do, you go in instantly, no longer than 30 secs. You can also stay with a group (girls in your group are great because they will social proof you). Most importantly look like you're having fun!

Okay the opener, my openers that I've used successfully time and time again:
- Hey, you know, this is sooo embarrassing, I was going to wear the same outfit tonight. (this one is golden, gets them laughing etc.)

- "Hey do you think guys who prefer cats over dogs are gay?" This one will get the set talking, excellent.

- * this one is for a girl who's dancing* "Hey, you know, most people dance TO the beat." Important here to deliver it with a smile.

- Lastly there's this one: "You strike me as a real dungeons and dragons (World of Warcraft w/e) player!" Also say it with a smile.

From there one, just get them to laugh, of course kino heavily, in clubs there's no problem with that. And then get them off the dancefloor to a dark place in the club where you can make-out with them. Just use a routine and tell them if you win you get a kiss, or whatever.

Have fun mate.

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