I always meet girls through friends or whatever on facebook then we'll strike up a convo (usually through messaging).. after a good 10-20 msgs it's gotta escalate somewhere right? But how do I go about asking for her number, or better yet, make it her idea to give me her number? Anybody got any good routines for this? Any help is welcome!!

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Well after a few messages get exchanged next time cut the communication use time restraint. Be like well I have " " to go do or go meet "joe" here's my number txt or call me. Or well I have to be going i have a busy day but I'd still like to stay in touch whats your number. Be more aggressive notice how I said whats your number not can I have your number. Play it by the type of girl she is so you dont offend her.

This is probably one of the easiest things to do. Remember that you are a very busy man. You don't have time to just chit chat with these women/girls. They don't need your time. What value do they have that would make you want to stick around? Now that we're clear on that. . .

Make up a reason to leave so that she can't end the conversation before you do. You are the one who is busy, but let her know you'd like to get a hold of her later.

"Give me your number and I'll text you up later, but I've got to get going. I have a few errands to run."

Number closes on facebook should be pretty much the same as if you were doing it in person.

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Definitely. Never ask a girl for her number. "You should give me your number." "Put your number in my phone."

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I usually give out my number and tell them I got to go:

something like:

"Well, i have to go now, but hey since i liked talking to you, here's my number, you can allways text me.."

then just leave, usually i get her number pretty fast after that

Be Mysterious

In this online world of love connections, you have to make an effort not looking too accessible. My biggest Facebook crush doesn’t provide the entire world with his email address or Blackberry PIN. Hence, I want to learn more about him.

Rules for Random Messaging

Complimenting her on her political views won’t get you in her pants. Don’t send a random message at 1h42 AM rambling about how much she looks like she could be in your family. You might come off as someone desperate.

Best Pick Up Line:

Subject: With all due respect. Killer photo

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I think I covered this topic on the online sarging area but I'll post it here again since you asked specificaly, get a good convo going (like you did) but absolutley add a time constraint, 30 minutes is WAY more than enough time to get her Net-Hooked. The only problem with a net-hook is at this point she isn't thinking of you as a real person, just some dude from facebook.

after the time constraint ignore her for a few days, after the ignore period (2-3 days) hit her with an opinion opener, make it an opener that you can neg no mater what she chooses (also explain that you're in a hurry again and set another time constraint) after she responds to what you ask say something like:

"Wow, that's messed up, I cant believe you would think that,
you're terrible! lol "

This way it is a light hearted neg (negs are hard to pull off online... no inflection/body language + she has time to reply negativley to it, so keep it light)

use the rest of the time to have a random convo then when the time runs out tell her you are really in a hurry and you need to leave. (seriously my rule for online sarging is STRICTLEY 30 minutes max try not to break it if possible... cut her off if you need to)

wait a few more days and tell her that you enjoy talking to her and would like to continue to do so, but, it would help if there were an easier way to contact her because you get busy and don't always have time to use facebook, follow that up with:

"What's a good way for you?"

This way you are apearing to give her a choice but she really only has one option,
you will more than likely Number-close from here, and giving you her number was her idea! (better yet)

I hate online sarging with an undying passion and have used this technique dozens of times and have had a VERY high success rate

Hope that helped ,

-Lush