Ok i actually came across this by accident. You Instant msg her send her just some random thing like a letter or a period or something that looks like you didnt do it on purpose. She may send you something back or she may not depends on the girl, but either way your 2nd msg to her will be SORRY I THINK MY COMPUTER WANTED TO TALK TO YOURS or something funny..she will respond with lol or she may start asking you questions either way u've opened next you can comment on a pic dont just say ur pic is cute say you have rosy cheeks or neg clothes she's wearing be diff. This have also helped me in person to b/c you can just feel how the interaction with the girl goes and I've number closed almost every girl with this. Make sure you build alot of comfort with a girl u'v never meet b4 asking for her number. GL

I just tried it and I got 3 lols out of 3 msgs sent ! then I followed by introducing myself ...etc and everything went on perfectely !
Good idea thnks , I recommand it