I been to pacha a number of times and i tried talking to a couple of women on the dancefloor but the problem is they can't hear me well i have to scream at them or say stuff more than once for them to hear me... what should i do to get her interested in me and then take her to somewhere quiter to talk??


Thanks,

Get her attention by "cheer"sing her drink use eye contact grab her hand and itl go from there

Remember there is no way that anything will ever work 100% of the time some girls are fridgets, bf's or not interested.

Let me know how it goes!

Btw if your very impulsive this should be easy for you =)

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I have abandoned that battle long ago....

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What do you do instead?

Go to a quieter place. Or try at the back of a club or if smokers don't bother you, smoking section.

I just keep it simple in the beginning, and after a bit of chitchat i suggest to go somewhere more quiet where we'll be able to talk some more. if she complies i grab her hand and lead her somewhere. When you're over there, just continue your game and use an opinion/situational opener/DHV-story/something else.

Like Rystar said I avoid the dance floors and pick quieter places but have found that in loud areas with seating I can approach them and capture their interest with simple magic tricks and basic conversation just to get the ball rolling

I will usually get really close to her.

I try not to raise my voice too much,

firstly because I don't want to wake up with a sore throat in the morning
and I also don't want to be yelling at her. It's weird to me.

Instead what I do is get really close. Smile, say hey. Then I'll move in and just start talking into her ear.

It's good because you're getting close and the loud music gives you that excuse.

When you're doing this you got to make sure not to raise your voice. The whole coming in and talking straight into her ear is smooth and it shows you're in control of the situation. If you come in and start talking loud, it just kills the moment.

Also, when you are talking into her ear, don't have your hands to your side. Put one on her hand the other on her back, shoulder, back of the neck, etc.


EDIT: Yes also once you see she's comfortable, take her somewhere quite. Sometimes I can't be fucked waiting, I'll just grab her hand and move her somewhere else, every girl has followed me no questions asked.

loud clubs suck

be short with what you are saying and present yourself with good body language and eye contact
try to get her to a quiet place is best

Whats up man......

I always work nightclubs and what always works 4 me is if ur a good dancer that loves messin around on the dancefloor u'll get her attenion don't look at her or notice anything she does..... then later on u r bound 2 c her at the bar or smoking area, she should remember u so thats when 2 start talkin 2 her, give her a few negs, act like the center of attenion walk off 2 ur mates sayin ya c her on the dancefloor later... when ya do c her on the dancefloor go over all happy and cool and say where's that dance u owe me and then work it from there trust me u should get her number.... works on 80% of girls man.....

let us know if u tryed it and i hope it works 4 ya..

Chrisc23

When I approach girls in loud clubs, should I approach her from front or behind?

Sometimes I try to brush my butts or sides to her body to get attention, but to no avail.

What about strategies for opening a group of girls on the dancefloor?

I got some advice from girls about dancefloor game, and they told me that I should never approached with my hips or lower body close to the girls. They said to touch shoulder/hand and other non-sexual parts first. And then when the girl gives the good-to-go signal, then it'll be time to grind and or escalate! What do u guys think?

I found it is best to keep your sentences short. If you start talking for a long time with opinion openers its gonna cut off or you will lose your voice haha.

Just say "hey" "wasup" "its my favorite song" "what drink is that" "you are not dancing" "you look bored" or w/e

Loud clubs usually attract really drunk girls so it doesn't really matter what you say.

Smoking lounge is key. Ask her for a light or a cig and ur good to go.

Whatever you do, DON’T BE A WALLFLOWER. Guys who stand against the wall looking longingly at the women get pidgenonholed as a typical desperate one they like to avoid. If you get stuck in such a position, move from it to another vantage point every few minutes before getting another project going.

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