The other day I popped into a fast foot place for a quick bite, and sat opposite a very cute college student who was sitting there with a girlfriend. She was easily a 9. Non-verbal went perfect, but I never tried any kind of closure because I was in a hurry and she was busy studying with her friend, so I couldn't think of anything in the heat of the moment. As soon as I left the place I kicked myself thinking I could have just left my number.

So, have you ever tried this? Just leaving your number discretely on a piece of paper? I've never tried myself so I'd like to know what is your success rate with this technique... Ever got a girl to call you with no previous verbal exchange?

Thanks.

Okay, I'm brand new to this whole thing as well--just read The Game a couple days ago, in fact--and I've been curious about this as well. After a couple beers, and some thought, I have a theory (NOT field tested), that because (1) I am naturally shy/socially anxious (2) this often seemed like a great idea to me--before reading The Game--and involves zero chance of face-to-face rejection, I'm going to assume that it's a very bad idea. For one thing, I assume that girls will know what a "safe" play it is, and from what I've gleaned, "safe" plays are just DLVs. The other reason is that in my limited experience, girls DO NOT call guys they don't know. Girls barely call guys they do know. One of the big reasons I want to become a PUA is that, as an AFC, occasionally, through divine intervention, I'd get a number close, and I'd be happy as hell about it, but I'd almost never get an answer to a call or a reply to a text. When I did, it was usually just excuses and flake-outs.

The biggest reason I think it's probably a no-go, of course, is because my AFC instincts want me to just casually drop my number in front of a girl and walk out. My AFC instincts are generally extremely AFC. However, I'd love to hear more input on this topic. Anyone had success with this in the field?

heres one ive tried twice and its worked.......

write your number on a peice of paper or a napkin and on you way out walk behind her or if she like opposite the other side of the room, go to the bathroom then walk round passed her way with the napkin with your number (do not put you name on it, it keeps her thinking about what your name is, building up something mysterious about you, something she will want to find out)

so on the way passing her, tap her on the shoulder and say "I think you dropped this" leave the napkin on the table with the number facing up and walk straight out, when your walking out (this is an option) pass by the window closest to her and just give a little smile and keep walking by or you can go the opposite way and completely avoid eye contact with her and wait for that txt or call.

The second time i tried this the girl came out of subway after me and this was priceless what she said...

"I think you left MY number on the table, cant believe you would do that (laughing)" and handed me her number, but i replied with, " I meant to leave it, there is no escaping you is there"

and ended laying her that weekend, so usually things like that can work, give it a try and let me know how you get on!

Well it is better not to give your number. but if the HB is still not sure about you (probably something wrong happened) you can offer your number with a statement that goes like this : ''I ll give you my number, if you are still unsure, call me with a with private number (number not to be shown), cause I'd just want to get to to know you!

Good luck next time!!