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im a senior in hs. i wanna talk to this junior who usually hangs out with a bunch of other girls..the only problem is she's kinda shy (i am too). im not really sure what opener i should use. also cause we're both shy im worried that i might not be able to keep the conversation going
accidentily smash into her and her group of friends and say, excuse me im sorry excuse me. this shows them that you have a fun side and are confident enough to approach them. now as soon as you do that, you ask a simple question such as where are you guys going? they all say like"to classs?" you just smile and say, that sounds fun and then you walk away. this builds rapport for next time and now everytime you see them, you and them will all laugh. now it is set up for the target, but do not be too quick to talk to her. DO NOT be the first one to initiate conversation with her. if you are, your value goes down dramatically. the best place to do this is coming up stairs or in a crowded hallway