i got those alot sometime and I could never figure out what they meant. I drink like eh, chocolate and a girl goes like "do you like chocolate?" I would eat carrots and a girl would go like "do you like carrots?" I would carry a bag around and a girl would go like "do you like your bag?" (heh, I said "...I dont have any personal feelings relating to this bag)
or cookies, or some building, and the deeper I look into myself I find that I just dont care. What could those questions mean and how does a smooth guy answer those?

hey,

I simply think that in any case, if you do care or not, it's an invitation to conversation.
For example, she asks you "Oh you like carots?" then go "I used to have a rabbit, and he dragged me into the carot scene, you know".
Simply ignoring the comment is a waste. If you don't care about your bag, that doesnt mean you cant make up something to say about it. Its not lying, in any case, it doesnt really matter if its a lie. Its flirting, and under any means if neccessary, heh.

heh, xD, uhhh of course. thanks

LOL!
At coffee shops I always order dark cocoa, no sugar. This always raises eyebrows all around me. Having odd items or customs, or even regular ones, that people can comment about is one of the basic ideas for getting the attention you want. Its the basic premises of peacocking.

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Hmm.. Strange... sounds so familiar ...

"Excuse me, Can I get your opinion on something..."
"Do you like..."

Hmm..

They are opening you with something that SHOULD get a "Yes" out of you and could start a conversation.

EvoJ

lol yeah, but in my case they dont have no game plan. "Do you like this tea" "yes its... very tasty" "oh how fortunate!" "..." "..."

Ok, here's a thought. How about deliberately answering no to the question.
Instead of being:
HB: Do you like that coffee?
PUA: Yes
HB: Oh, ok.

It can be:
HB: Do you like that coffee?
PUA: No, I am performing self turture to redeem my sins.
HB: what?! (begins conversation)

Of course you'll want to put something funny instead, but it can be a way to have game plan even if she doesn't.

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Lmao
or

PUA: "Nope, I'm actually highly allergic to it. I just moved in down the street and though I would test the response times of my new EMS."

EvoJ

y! I remember doing that sometimes, im gonna build myself a little repertoire(and steal your stuff, thx guys).

lol, I was outthinking myself so badly on this one
she: "Do you like carots?"
I: (okay... she does not really care, why the fuck is she asking? HHH a TEST!?)

oh but one different spot I do remember: when they seek confirmation. Shes like "do you want to watch this movie with me friday? its sooo funny" "y cool"
and then we watch the movie(lol, im bored as usual) and every ten minutes she stares at me looking for a reaction "do you think its funny?" "do you like the movie?"

or even worse a girl cooks something.

...do I always have to pretend to like what shes doing with good intentions? because it feels like faking orgasm. I suspect there is a line somewhere but Im not exactly sure where.

If a girl I care about prepares food for me I will always eat it and I will always like it because I believe if somebody cares about you and you let him or her, thats bonding and a valuable thing. ...One time I did even take some medications I wouldnt have normally because a girl wanted to prepare it for me(im gonna think about if this was good when the hallucinations stop).

hmm I start to think that the movies are a somewhat different thing. she does not ask because she chose the movie (=invested energy) but because she actually LIKES the movie. Means she is trying to friendshipstylebond by finding similarities so she can share emotional states. (I think this could also be used and gets used as a test sometimes by women if you suckup to her opinions, but thats not the situation im talking about)

How much lying do you do there under what circumstances?


Question2:

eh, i would feel stupid to make an extrapost for this, in my new home country the people are very friendly and sociable and its common to ask "que tal?(how are you)" so I get asked "que tal?" often by girls I dont even remember(which is kind of unfair because I have a hard time differentiating people but am the only white guy in town). Ive been to lame to utilize this yet, maybe you can fill my head with some ideas.

Brazil? or Portugual?
I know it's off topic, just curious >.>

paraguay!

When she asks if you like the movie it is a definite IOI. The reason for this is as follows. During or before this movie she has probably expressed her like for it. "Oh Life is on... I love that movie.. Eddie murphey is so funny... blah blah etc.. etc.."

She has just invested a part of her self esteem in this movie. She has made a statement saying that it is a "8" out of "10" or whatever. Now, you go through this movie and you don't laugh once.. and you don't even smile. She is laughing and looking over to you wondering "Maybe this isn't funny.. he isn't laughing at all.. he isn't even smiling." Basically, if you said "I'm sorry hun... but this movie is terrible." You would crush her. She is already looking for your acceptance just by asking.

This questioning shows that she cares about your opinion!

As per food she makes for you... if it is "eh" then say you like it. If it is horrible then tell her so, you would hate to say "OMG this is the best ever!" and she tastes hers and then goes "OOPs! I accidentally replaced the sugar with salt!" and then she looks at you... great huh?

Just tell her.. "Umm.. did you taste this while you were cooking?" or something like that OR wait for her to taste it first and she should tell you how it is by her face. If it is supposed to be that way then your pretty much fucked.

EvoJ

This reminds me of the time when i was experimenting with being super cheesy and they love it, it is so bad its funny.

So the food tasted bad, i tasted it.
Her: So, tastes good?
I stand up and walk past her, but just as i walk past her i lean back and kiss her
Her: What was that for?
Chikito: Oh the food tasted so bad, i needed somthing nice and sweet tasting to clear it out [then i winked super cheesy style and actually said 'DING']

HAHAH i think that is one of most brilliant moments.

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haha as if the rest wasn't enough. I like it

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hahaha,

Im starting to think that whenever social intelligence forces you to do something, you can simply ignore it and do something totally different.
When people start to whine, I sometimes start something like "...*risefinger*... ... ...it must be really stressful to be beat up by bruce lee, I mean he hits you real hard all the time while he makes those uh uh uh uh uh noises"
the kitchenpeace sounds like a perfect solution to me.