Talking to ugly chicks does not eliminate AA



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 4:39 am 
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Talking to ugly chicks does not eliminate AA. It eliminates the fear of talking to a stranger. When I'm not sexually attracted to a girl in any way (like if she's ugly), I'm just as relaxed as I would be talking to a random dude. The AA of talking to a HB is different because it's the fear of talking to a stranger combined with the intimidation by her beauty and the fear of the potentially painful rejection that could happen. An ugly chick does not have beauty, so you will (I'm assuming) not be intimidated. If she rejects you, you aren't gonna give a shit. You'd definitely want that anyways instead of the opposite =p. As you can see, it's an entirely different type of AA you're dealing with depending on whether you are sexually attracted to girl you're opening.

If you don't believe me. Try this (assuming you have AA issues). Approach 5, 10, 15, or more ugly chicks. By ugly I don't mean average (5 or 6) chicks that aren't HBs. I mean no more than a 4. After that, find a 9 or a 10 (good luck finding a 10, they are fucking rare) and open. Or try to. You will most likely be nervous as shit. Even though you approached a shitload of women, you did not have any sexual attraction for any of them. You may as well have been talking to a bunch of random dudes. You definitely will feel more social, but you're now dealing with a new type of AA. Good luck.

The best way to deal with AA is just to fucking open the HBs. If you're very shy in general or have poor social skills, then you should worry about those issues first for now. But otherwise, just force yourself to. The trick is to not expect things to happen. You're probably not gonna get laid from the first five, ten, or even twenty approaches. But who gives a shit? You've got experience now.

This was something I took a LONG time to realize. But I'm so glad I realize it now. I made a promise to myself a few nights ago that I would approach at least one random hot chick around campus a day. Yesterday I approached four. Wasn't expecting anything. I ran the same opinion opener. All of they hooked. I lost one of them after a while cause she was busy studying. One of them I tried to neg but didn't really work so I bailed. Then there was this two set. My opener was gold and they were sooooo hooked. If my mind wasn't firing blanks and I was able to quickly and instinctively come up with some good negs, I would've been in. So I didn't get any closes. Did I care? No. In fact I felt really good after the approaches. Felt real confident and in the zone wearing my shades and listening to Guns N' Roses, chest held high. :)

Bottom line is, if you have AA issues, you don't need to "work your way up" from ugly chicks to hot ones. That's flawed logic, as I have shown. Just grow a pair and talk to the hot ones. If they have ugly friends though, then talk to the ugly friends, make the HB jealous, etc. And remember to have fun and open without expectations.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:13 am 
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Your right... however, my fear of AA during day game is not knowing what a girl's deal is.. At a club, you can tell what they're looking for by how they're reacting to guys speaking to them, or even how they look around and carry themselves.. If they're looking for a one night stand, they'll usually be touchy. If they're looking for a relationship sort of guy, they'll be smiling and super nice, but will have their slut defense up. If they're already in a relationship and don't want anything, they won't even give the eye... But when approaching a girl in public, you have absolutely no idea, whether she's married, whether she's a lesbian, whether she's single, whether she's a slut, or whatever.....

I think its that degree of "un-sure-ity" is what makes day game so intimidating.. its like wasting gas without even knowing if your destination exists.. lol


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:10 am 
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For some reason I only have AA when approaching ugly chicks

I think it was because I trained myself crashing and burning on 9s, or what you guys would say 10s (I personally don't believe in 10s)

But I have AA on strangers also (men and woman) just not on hb9s. It's weird


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