So i met this freshman girl last semester, I got her number. we never truly hang out or go on a date. Probably because I had suspicion she have a bf. We talked a bit and stuff and we had a bowling class together so that was fun. Well now She broke up with her bf and I really want to get with her. She is a sweet and shy girl. She recently broke up with her bf about the beginning of feb (it was on facebook) and pretty sure they are over now.
Could some one please give me some advice on what to open with in this situation or how to approach her? I haven't talked to her in a while, So i really don't want to be sudden

You shouldn't have waited for her to breakup. You make your move while she has a boyfriend. Tell her that he doesn't know WTF he has. Talk shit, then after she breaks up with him she will come to you.

Use her sadness to your advantage. My only idea is to play on her misforutune as a friend, then sneak in for the kiss after she is crying on your shoulder. Tell her she is amazing.

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Message her and be like hey are you OK? I heard you just went through a breakup?

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Oh hello magnum45...

Sir you do not want to listen to this guy. Unless its a different one from the one that was posting a while back and coincidently has the same user name.

Dude, dnt go sendin messages or anything pertaining to her break up. Depending on how the break up went, she cud be in a completly defensive mode or hurt mode. Since yall are already friends, take advantage of that. It ain't always bad to be a rebound . Dnt bring up the topic of her bf or the break up. U already kno he's gone so now it's ur time to dhv and get the kino started. If you need more help & advice, pm me and we can do this one on one. I have lots of experience dealin with girls on the rebound

She will be emotional and insecure after the break up. You should make her feel good and every minute she'll be with you she will forget about the ex. She will want to always be around you.

i think this goes against the rules of the game to be honest you are in a way manipulating the situation and her feelings for your benefit thats not cool. Play the game as normal why even mention the break-up in actual fact if you mention the break-up it will only make her think about her ex which will only hinder your chances pretend it never happened. Next time you see her mention the bowls class you done together take her back to a place where she had happy memories.

Shes most vulnerable now... use the situation (cause she needs someone to talk). But dont be her gay-friend ...

The reason why someone said you must go sarge even if she has bf is because you can know right on time when she is not interested in relationship anymore... That way you can DLV the bastard (LOL) and DHV yourself.

As i said. Sooner you try to get her, better... Girls are very vuln. for exploitation after breakups because they feel insecure

Exploiting women should not be your tactic fella. Thats not part of the game and never should be, if you are struggling to get her maybe your game is not strong enough yet, improve you game to a point where you can get her but dont exploit the target.

You are just lying to yourself Joker.

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So should i let some AFC do her instead of me ? It's not about exploiting i know, but it is survival of the fittests... If you wait until she wont be vulnerable in a mean time someone else could get her. And about the exploiting the target well... NLP is kind of exploiting/controling the target whole game thing is exploiting the target for your goals . And we all know what the goals are

If a female friend of mine goes through a breakup, I wait until in comes up in conversation. If I know it happened I might steer her to mention it. From there, I tell her something like "Bah, there are plenty of guys out there. Tell you what, we're hitting the bar/club this weekend and I'm gonna introduce you to a dozen new guys who are gonna fawn over you like helpless little puppies, then you'll feel better."
They almost invariably give a very halfhearted refusal, and I insist. "No, we're definitely doing this. I'm not gonna sit around and watch you mope, it's bad for my conscious."

Basically I play the part of wingman for them while simultaneously disqualifying myself for a relationship. She'll wonder why I'm not making a move now that I know she's single, and it messes with her circuitry- "He likes spending time with me if he's willing to do this, but why isn't HE taking advantage of this?"

The funny thing is that I didn't start doing this as part of my game and I usually have the actual intention of introducing the girl to guys. If I'm interested in the girl, I just make sure to escalate and AMOG as appropriate. Otherwise I'll let other guys move in to boost her self esteem.

Wow magnum45, tell us all about how many times "exploiting" a girl got you anywhere? Please do.

"Pick up arts" is not about fooling anyone into anything. If you are a real man, you move in, do what you want, deal with rejection if any, or take them out and sweep them off their feet. It's about getting 2 people together, and that's entirely the man's responsibility. If you are attractive, and dominant, and fun, you don't need to fool anyone into anything. I'm living that life right now, so don't tell me it doesn't work.

It's been said before, but the way to do it is no different than any other way. Yes you should be there before it happens ideally, afterwards it's no different. Basically you're right for her or you're not. the break up is something bad that happened and you should treat it as such - diplomatically, bring it up with caution, and DEFINITELY not as a conversation starter, for fuck's sake. You will be like every other stupid AFC dickhead sending her Facebook comments on her relationship status, it's just embarassing for everyone involved.

omg...

1st thing - AFC's w8

2nd - no matter if she is vulnerable or not PUA can make her feel gr8 and she can fall in love next week after breakup... Why should he w8? So other guy can take her?

No matter how we call it... Exploiting or not because the whole "game" is based on exploiting some way

"Taking opportunities" I see nothing wrong with, but "Exploiting" has negative connotations... You can't "trick" someone into liking you, no matter what anyone says.