Hey all!

You had a bad night, it happens. Seems like you were giving that one girl more attention than she deserved. Talk to some other girls, dance with other girls and make sure she sees this. Buying her some drinks wasn't the best idea either, makes you seem desperate. And who cares if you don't pick up any girls? You should be going out to have a good time, picking up girls is just part of that good time. Enjoy hanging out with friends, meeting new people, all that good stuff.

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tough break dude.....but ya goota sober up and keep at it, don't go feeling so sorry 4 yrself. Its either sink or swim. so get the fuck out and sarge. ya gotta read up dude, ya gotta strenthen ya inner game. even if ya gotta go out and get dissed by a hundred bitches ya gotta keep learning from it and adjust ya game.

fuck dude......wots the choice???? being an afc is death. what ya doing here is serious shit, the goal isnt only snagging HB's, its also about self mastery.

in life ya gotta put in work to master anything.....even the basics. few on this forum would be naturals, most of us learnt the hard way,,,,,,,,beinn dissed by bitches.

stop whining start reading and saging, and soon enough it will be u dissing bitches cuz u have real choice.

good luck

DM

By the way I'm a sophomore in college. I had a really beautiful girlfriend last year, all year, though I wouldn't have had her if she wasn't so aggressive and hadn't come onto me first. Long story short, I got laid anytime I wanted for a year, and spent all my time with her, and now I'm a year behind as far as game goes. Everybody else has had a year in college to learn how to pick up girls, whereas I had a one year stand with a girl and am just starting.

And thanks for the advice guys.

yea brotha, dont worry about it! this is the stuff that makes it fun. at first you suck at it...then you learn some stuff, try it out and you start seeing progress. check out mystery's new book, it's got a lot of interesting stuff. definately don't buy her drinks for her attention, and i like to drink as much as the next guy, but try not to get to messed up or else your not really making that much progress, your just getting beer balls and your probably sloppy. keep going out man, youll be banging hotties before you know it

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Look i m not trying to diss you, just throw some constructive criticism (i used to make the exact same mistakes):
As you walk around the club, instead of checking out hot girls dancing in a creepy way make eye contact with the girls sitting around and open them. If you get rejected it s no big deal, you were just walkin away anyways
Never buy a girl drinks (or any gifts for that matter) until you got something from her. If you do she ll think you re desperate
if by "good to go" you re referring to your progress towards LJBF-land, then you re right, you're almost there... Remember, you wanna flirt with a girl and one of the best ways to do that is by remaining mysterious... hard to do when you tell her all about you and keep talking about your common interests.


this has been said thousands of times on this forum and other similar ones, but i ll repeat it one more time: girls WANT to be approached. Why do you think she put in all the effort to look good and get ready for the club? to sit there quietly wit her friends all night? girls want action, they want to be approached by fun guys, that s why they re there in teh first place! However also keep in mind that most girls have a "bitch shield" which they ll use automatically when you open them, you just have to get past it, don't let it discourage you.

good luck!

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"This tough guy, will get by, while the chickens wonder why
I don't be callin cause it's like Ex to Next kid
I know what I want, and just how to get it" Gang Starr

To get over that AA live by the 3 second rule, don't even give yourself time to think about it, just go do it!

Just keep going Ivy, it will get better. I've had a girlfriend for the last two years(we broke up in June), and that was my only real experience with a girl. Before that relationship i was a fucking pussy, i never dared talking to girls.

But now, after discovering this community i have changed a whole lot. You will change too.

Here's a good tip for you mate, read Instant Confidence by Paul McKenna, it boosted my inner game a lot. It also comes with a confidence CD that you can listen to