| Interesting. I have also used twilight references when talking to women to great effect..
For instance, a couple of weeks ago I was standing outside a club with an HB8 and she lookedcold. So I used that as an excuse to kino escalate and took her under my arm. She said "wow you're really warm to the touch" and I replied, very sensually and slowly right in her ear "that's because I'm a werewolf" then bit her earlobe gently.
I then leaned back grinning wildly. She laughed and soon after took me back to her place.
I've also used the opposite. A girl mentioned that my hands felt cold and I said "well, I'm not supposed to tell people this...but I'm a vampire." She lapped it up, as did all the others in the group.
I have a theory that by doing this you are associating yourself with the feelings she gets when she watches or reads Twilight - arousal/attraction/lust.
In fact, that girl who I said I was a vampire to laughed and then looked me up and down and said "actually, you are kind of like him! Look a bit like him to!"(I'm decent looking but there is no way in hell I look like Robert Pattinson.)
I was making out with her within 30 seconds of her saying this.
Throughout the night, I had been playing push-pull to the max. One minute leaning in and being intimate, the next acting cold and distant. This, coupled with the Twilight reference, and I'd created a link between me and what she feels for Edward Cullen.
The fact that she said I looked like him also made me think. If you act attractively and have tight game, girls will convince themselves that you are good looking. I have seen this happen. Several times, girls have referred to a guy they like as gorgeous/handsome/hot..then they will introduce them to their friends and their friends will not agree. These guys tend to be very good at talking to girls.
But I digress...What I am saying is that yes, Twilight references can be very effective not only as openers, but for building rapport and also using NLP to associate yourself in a girl's mind with Edward Cullen/Jacob Black. _________________ “There is an ecstasy that marks the summit of life, and beyond which life cannot rise. And such is the paradox of living, this ecstasy comes when one is most alive, and it comes as a complete forgetfulness that one is alive.”
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