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Ok so guys, I'm 16, and I've gone sarging using PUA material 3 times in my life, I got 6 numbers in one night, but it was only because I was feeling overly confident. So now I wanna pick up many girls and hang out with every one of them. I'm motivated. So I am planning to spend two days, probably around 3 hours a day just picking up girls. I need help from you guys... I'm going to do this at a mall... So here's a list of things I need your help on.
Valperl,
I am happy to see members getting inspired to start going out and getting better with the material and determined to get results. I have been at this for over 2 years and I feel can give you some good advice about wings. For the most part I have gone solo when I go out except for a few times.
The thing I tell most guys is that if you aren't good enough to pull a girls number or a date on your own then you don't need to be in set with another guy as their wing. Let's say you have 7 sticking points at first keeping you from getting the girl that you have to work through at first, just as an example. Let's say your wing might have 5 sticking points, some are different and some the say keeping him from getting the girl.
We put both of you in set. Well now instead of just the 7 we have to work around to get the girl now we are adding complications to the set. If you see where I am going with this. When you guys are starting to consistently get results on your own then think about winging but not before.
Also, the amount of time you plan on spending out there seems like a reasonable goal and will help you improve. Remember that results don't come over night and you have to set in for the long haul. It's going to take you a few months to get consistently good with what you are purposing. Not to say you won't get any results but it will be inconsistent at first. Just mentally prepare yourself for that.
Do I bring any props? --> You really don't need any for daytime interaction
How much money do I bring with me? ---> Just a few bucks if you want to get a drink or something.
How should I approach without seeming weird? --> Be direct in your approaches don't linger around looking at the girl especially during the day that will be creepy. Follow the 3 second rule. 3 seconds from the time you see a girl you are interested in you need to be over there talking to her.
The other aspect of this is personal space. People naturally have a certain amount of personal space they like to have. If you get too close to someone then they feel a little weird because you are so close to them. During the day time most people have a bubble of about 4-5 feet that they like to have. Make sure that when you go up to talk to them that you start opening at about this distance. As you talk more you can get a little closer... This will keep her from being as defensive when you approach her.
Also, make sure that when you go to open her that you are loud enough that it would be socially awkward for her to ignore you. You want to make sure that she knows you are talking to her. If she has the chance to ignore you or act like she didn't hear you or act like she didn't know you were talking to her she will. It's easier to ignore you than respond to you, even if she likes you. I'm not saying YELL at the top of your lungs but definitely project your voice enough so she knows you are talking to her.
How can get into the mood for sarging fast? ---> Well, get yourself in a good mood. Do things that make you happy before you go out. Listen to music you like, maybe work out, call up a friend to talk to before going so you get in a talkative mood.
What openers do I use? ---> Really you can use just about anything. During the day time I recommend that you are more direct because people are out shopping and doing their thing. They are going to have less time to spend hanging around as oppose to people going to a night club to hang out. There are a ton of openers on the forum.
Where do I pickup, the stores? ---> Anywhere really that you see someone.
Food court?
Or where else?
How much time do I spend with a girl till I ask her for the number? --> There is no set amount of time. If you feel that things are going pretty well and she is responding to you and talking to you then go ahead and ask for her number.
Hope it helps man. Best of luck out there at the mall.
Jon
CHAT
