Hi there,

Maaximum Seduction would like to wish you and yours a Happy Holiday season. I am sure you have a full feeling in your stomach from all of the wonderful goodies you consumed over this period. However, have you been feeding your mind with success food? See typically in this period we tend to make resolutions or what are better known as "empty promises" to ourselves to change something about ourselves, whether it be a habit, a behavioral pattern or to start taking action to achieve a goal. The problem with this is that we usually wait until the onset of the New Year to decide to make a change and secondly, because of this one off occasion that is singled out by our culture as a special point of change, we never do anything either before it or leading up to it and also fail to continue to act, to obtain it for more than a few weeks or months.


We need to change this and we need to change this NOW!


See you need to understand that you should make a resolution and set personal goals all the time and every time, instead of simply waiting until the new year to do so. Secondly, you need to act on your goals consistently until you achieve them. Now going back to what I was saying earlier, you need to be on a mental diet of success, if you want to become successful in not just your dating life but in every area of it. If you are not on a success diet then you must make a change now. This dietary change consists of two things.



* Changing your inner reality or psychology
* Changing your beliefs about your reality


I want you to ask yourself, if you have any self-limiting beliefs or conditioned mental habits that are causing you to act in a manner that is destructive and/or non conducive to the attainment of your goals

If the answer is yes, then I recommend getting rid of them using a process called the

"Reference Peg Elimination" method.


Imagine if you will, that your beliefs or conditioned thought patterns are a table top and the four legs that are supporting this table top are your ideas or references points as to why they are true. The way to bring down the table is to destroy each of these reference points or pegs. For instance, within the context of dating and relationships, if you believe that you have to be good looking, rich or young to attract and date beautiful, high quality women and that is preventing you from taking action on approaching, acting confidently when interacting with a woman, escalating the interaction with a woman who is giving off interest signals to you to a physical level, etc then ask yourself if this belief or table top is supported by "Factual reference pegs" or "Fictional reference pegs". There is only one way to find out which is to engage in a bit of self interrogation. For instance, ask yourself:

"Have I seen an average looking guy with a beautiful woman?"

We both know the answer to this don't we? The answer is yes of course

With this answer, we can remove one of the supporting reference pegs

The next question we can ask is:

"Have I seen an average income earning guy with a woman more beautiful and of higher quality than his rich male counterpart?" You will find as I have that the answer to this question is, once again a firm yes. Again, we can eliminate another reference peg for this belief because it is being supported by fiction and not fact.

Do you understand the process now? Good. Carry this on with all of your negative beliefs and thought patterns until they are no more. In fact and backtracking to the use of labels such as factual or fictional, you will find that many of the self-limiting beliefs or conditioned thought patterns you have that are leading you to fail with women are all based on fiction and lies. Simply knowing this is enough for your subconscious mind to eliminate them because remember your subconscious mind is constantly moving you towards a state of pleasure and away from pain and so it is more painful to hold on to these beliefs then to get rid of them.


Note then that this "Reference Peg Elimination" exercise is your first step to success with the opposite sex.


The second step comes with the implantation of new, empowering beliefs.

Now if you don't know what to believe then let me assist you. You need to make sure that your beliefs or thought patterns are supported by truisms and not fictional evidence and ultimately are conducive to your ability to achieve your goals and dreams.

Consequently, based on the earlier belief that we abolished which was that women are only attracted to men that are good looking, rich or young, we need to correct this to:

Women are attracted to men who exhibit certain non-verbal traits and behavioral patterns irrespective of their looks, income level or age. Furthermore, with the right step by step approach you can consistently approach, attract, illicit a connection with and score a date or even a long term relationship with any woman.


As a result, can you see how this belief gives us control of whether or not we succeed or fail with women instead of leaving it to external factors that are not in our control like looks, income or age? Of course. However, since it suggests that we have control of our dating and sex lives, we must now stop making excuses for why we are not good with women and get out there and do something about it because we can. This mere fact makes this belief a very productive and empowering one.


Now that you have started to experience a paradigm shift from within, we now need to develop a game plan to make you master the art of approaching, attracting and scoring dates with women.


Well it just so happens that it is the holiday season and that means that people are in a jolly and festive mood. There are parties and get-togethers for us to attend each and every day culminating in the biggest party of 'em all-the New Years Party. What do you have planned for New Years? Are you going to stay at home like a loser or make a decision to change your life once and for all by doing something about it and by going out and meeting people? As I have stated we shouldn't just wait for the holiday season or for New Years to initiate change, but better late than never right?

Having said that, here are some suggestions for you to start the process of changing your dating and sex life once and for all by taking advantage of the holiday season and all of the social events that come with it.

1. Make a decision that you will not settle for less and that you deserve success
2. Make a decision that you will take action on obtaining mastery in your dating and sex life, no matter what because you will never have true status in society as a male, until you do.
3. Go out and buy yourself some nice clothes and some nice smelling cologne
4. Style your hair
5. Use the belief changing exercise I showed you earlier to eliminate any false and destructive beliefs you have
6. Foster the belief that you are what you believe and will get what you believe. Consequently believe that you are a success, destined for greatness, happiness, joy, fulfillment, love, etc
7. Believe that you are on your way to becoming a lady killer and a social skills maestro from this New Years onwards.
8. Buy a ticket for a New Years bash party at an external social venue or accept an invite to a house party. If you are on Facebook, then you can join many social events groups that mail out info on weekly and even daily social events.
9. At the party, approach everyone and anyone. Just introduce yourself and let your creative mind guide you on what to say and do. If you are not sure, just say "Hi I am Simon, and you are?"
10. Once you've gotten a basic response to your intro then you can compliment the guys on their clothing or hair do's and the women on their dress, make up or hair. You can then tell jokes and also cool stories that convey your personality to any particular social set you enter.


The bottom line-Just take action!


In doing so, you will find what works and doesn't for you, very quickly the more people you interact with. Once again remember however to allocate some time weekly, throughout the year to meet people and women and not just on New Years. However if this is your starting point then fine, but from this New Year until the next DO NOT give up taking action by going out and meeting women. If you do this then you will truly reap the great benefits of taking this level of action and will quickly become a social skills and seduction guru. I am telling you from my own experience and from the accounts of others I know that have mastered this game, as well.


Lastly, you run the risk of experiencing years of frustration by figuring out what works through trial and error by just going out there and taking action because you will not know exactly how to approach a woman, then what to say to attract her, then how to build a genuine connection with her, how to escalate things to an intimate and sexual level with her and finally how to get her to see you as boyfriend material and will not have an entire array of other complex skills you need to consistently and successfully meet, attract, seduce and date women in various social venues and in specific social situations.


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Look, you can sit there on the couch, go out there and constantly get shot down, give up perfectly good chances to meet, attract and date many beautiful, high quality women you see on the streets or inside social venues or end up with average low self esteem women or you can decide that 2010 will be the start of something marvelous for not just your dating and sex life but your life in general. So what are you waiting for? The time and opportunity to drastically change your life are here right now. The question is- what are you going to do about it?




Happy Holidays and a very New Year to you and yours




McMaax and the Maaximum Seduction Team
http://www.maaximumseduction.com