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PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:51 pm 
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I have a second job at a coffeeshop, and there are a lot of attractive women that come in there. Usually the conversations with them is kind of AFC, a lot of it has to do with just being in customer service. Things that you would normally say in the situation. Like a greeting of "how's it going today?" and such.

If a girl is cute and I have a second to talk, either while making her drink or after I take her order, the only thing I can really ever think of to open with is "How's your day going" "What are you up to today/tonight", "What are you shopping for" etc. And it can start some pretty decent conversations. I've even done the "Have you seen X movie yet?, what we're your thoughts on it?"

I really want to come up with a better way to start an interesting conversation with a woman that isn't something that can just sound like somebody just chatting up with every customer. Any ideas?


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I used to love getting numbers from my register. I ask them about the day to find out the status (IE Married, Divorce, Busy) stuff like that. The biggest thing to remember is you have COMFORT b/c your not some random person of the street and she trusts you to an extent b/c she cam e into your store. I don't have any lines to give b/c I usually just freestle it. But the winner for me was how I spoke to them. I was beyond the normal cashier and I spoke to them like 1) I've known them for years 2) In a very seductive manner. The beforementioned can only be gained by not having fear to speak. So try the 3 second rule and start talking to everybody. Even old people, it doesn't have to only be a good looking girl

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Hey Strimpboi,stop f***ing looking for the magic bullet or a magic pill-it doesnt exist.

You are sought of doing the right thing by fluff talking with random girls in the coffee shop. You just need to be more vibrant and playful.

You can talk about coffee. But do it in a playful way."Hey,this' the best coffee in the world,it gives you wings like Redbull. You might be flying out of her so be careful".

That should be your tone & vibe:playfulness & humor. I really wish I worked in the service industry. You need to be the super-social guy to the customers.

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