| Let's talk about Social Circle Sarging for a second.
This isn't particularly addressed in PUAdom because, for real, a lot of PUAs don't pursue active social lives, instead concentrating on improving their Game and occasionally hitting the fool's mate, one night stand and/or fuck buddy. And, of course, if one has read Neil's "The Game", you can see how fucked up you can get without pursuits beyond the Game, having regular friends you can chill with and what not.
The rules are very similar to typical wing rules, except it's your wing- the guy who knows the social circle and has intro'ed you to his friends- who's calling the shot.
1 ) YOU DO NOT FUCKING TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
How much can I fucking STRESS this shit? Maybe you want to talk about it to your friends and impress them with your knowledge. Fine, good for you. But when you've been introduced to your buddy's (and hopefully your wing is just more than a wing to you, but actually a good friend who also happens to have similar goals and skill levels when it comes to women) friends, YOU DO NOT FUCKING TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
2 ) YOU DO NOT GAME UP YOUR BUDDY'S TARGET.
If your buddy has told you which girl is his target (or someone he hooked up with or planning to) YOU DO NOT FUCKING TRY AND GAME HER. Instead, YOUR DUTY- as both a good friend and wing- is to TALK HIM UP to give him SOCIAL PROOF that he's the fucking COOLEST GUY IN THE FUCKING WORLD AND YOUR BEST FRIEND. Obviously, however, this isn't a perfect world and maybe your buddy's girl isn't into you. Fine, but A) you still notify him and B) you don't Game until you have permission or C) It's SOOOOO fucking obvious that she's into you (not your run of the mill IOI, but she's full up acting AFC on your ass and trying to Game you while ignoring your buddy) and you've exhausted options A and B. Then you can go in.
3 ) COMMUNICATE YOU FUCK HEADS
Tell your buddies which girl is off limits and which one isn't. You cannot tell them "We're just friends" and assume that she's off limits. You actually have to tell them. You know they're PUAs, respect that they're going to Game what's hot. And if you simply indicate there isn't anything serious going on, THEN DON'T GET FUCKING MAD IF THEY MAKE A PLAY FOR THAT ASS.
4 ) DO NOT HOG ALL THE GIRLS
You cannot intro your buddies into your social circle and expect them to whack off in the corner. They will be men and Game. Let them know who's off limits and who isn't. You can't have plans on EVERY SINGLE FUCKING GIRL THERE. Why then even fuck bother introducing your PUA friends other than to show off?
5 ) INTRODUCE HIM TO YOUR OWN SOCIAL CIRCLES
Do NOT be a fucking leech. If he's taken the time and effort to introduce you into his social circle, give a little respect that you're stepping from a purely wing environment into an actual friendship beyond acquaintenances. Introduce him into your own social circles and follow the rest of the Rules.
6 ) YOU ARE NOT A FUCKING SARGE ROBOT
Act like an actual human being for once- chill, and have fun. This is what regular people- be they AFCs or Naturals- do. They aren't sargaholics, they actually have a life beyond picking up chicks. Seriously. CHILLAX for a second. Enjoy the environment, the ambiance, and the people. You are not on a fucking stage and you do not have to fucking perform every time you see a cute chick. VIBE AND HAVE FUN.
7 ) RESPECT THAT SOMETIMES YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE GIRL WILL DIG YOUR WING
Don't fucking freak. Expect it. If they weren't going to hook up with your PUA buddy, they would still end up hooking up with an AFC or a natural. Deal with it. But at the same time, your PUA wing/buddy better not be stepping out of bounds and Gaming your girl, unless she's definitely not into you but rather him. Then just be a MAN and step aside. You win some. You lose some. That's life.
8 ) DON'T PLAY FUCKING MIND GAMES WITH ONE ANOTHER
That's what chicks do. That's not what bros do. Now maybe you wing with some PUAs but aren't actually FRIENDS with them. That can happen and they want to subtly indicate they are more "alpha" than you. But that's not what friends are about. Don't fuck each other over.
9 ) DO NOT BE A FUCKING COCK BLOCK
If your buddy is interested in a girl, your job is to SOCIAL PROOF HIM. You do not fucking cock block him. You do not TOOL him. You do not AMOG him. You show her that you consider him to be the most coolest, alpha guy in the room. It's a PRIVILEGE that you're in his circle of friends. Show some respect, appreciation and fucking FRIENDSHIP.
10 ) PAY ATTENTION
This is simple SITUATIONAL AWARENESS, people. If you are the introducer, pay attention to your friends as to whether or not they're having a good time and what not. By inviting him out, you are also accepting responsbility for his enjoyment as well as actions. Don't put him in a position where he'd like to commit seppuku and slice open his abdomen from sheer boredeom while you do your shit. If you are the introducee, pay attention and follow your friend's lead. You are there by his invitation. Don't fuck him over by violating Rule #9. Vibe you fuckheads. Social circle sarging should be relatively easy because it isn't a cold approach and you don't have to be a sarge automaton.
hope it helps
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Hehe, I kid, I kid! Every PUA should see this.