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| cubalibre | PostPosted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 5:00 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Aug 25, 2007 4:45 am Posts: 6 Website: http://google.com Location: Auckland, N.Z. | | I went out sarging for the first time last night, I was armed only with Styles 'jealous girlfriend' opener and whatever I remembered from the net.
It worked amazingly. Now I didnt get any numbers as after a strong opener I had little matereal. Today I have been reading up on phase shifting from an opener.
What I found was after an opener I should change topic when they are hooked. I break out the DHV's and keep them entertained. Here is a story I created to tell after my advice opener:
I was at a different bar earlier tonight when some guy came up to me and starts looking at my shoes. He then looks me in the eye and says, “I need some shoes buddy and I like yours”. Now this guy was threatening with faded tattoos up his arms and on his neck and I wondered what he was doing in a place like this. He continued looking me in the eye and without smiling said he would buy me any drink in return for my shoes.
I looked at the bar, then looked at the ground which had a fair amount of broken glass for that time of the night. Figuring he was messing with me I told him that it would have to be more like ten drinks to numb the pain of cutting off my feet. Even then, if there was a fire I would not be able to carry this girl to safety. There was a trashed girl at the bar who was barely staying on her stool... I ordered my drink and left smiling.
The funny thing is he was in no way going to fit my shoes...
That sub-communicated:
I am confident to stand up to someone/ hold my own.
I have nice shows.
I can quickly pick up on jokes.
I am witty.
I am a protector.
I am alpha (displayed confidence and good story telling when saying all this).
It raised questions and put me in a dominant light. I'm doing this one step at a time, my first night went well enough to give me faith in canned matereal.
I would love feedback and will tell how it goes.
That story should last about 2 minutes and needs padding.
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