Hi guys, how youall doin ?

My friends and ppl in forums I used to log into had always asked me things like "whats the best opener ? " or "which one do you use? " or "I cant open iv nothin to say ".

An opener can be ANYTHING , literally , that will initiate the chat with an hb.(could be even non verbal!)
remember, how you deliver has a much bigger effect than what you deliver(use the right body language)
You dont have to think about openers , just throw 1st thing pops to your head.

I always use "NATURAL" openers. means , before I approach ,I look at her at a glance , then open with 1st thing pops to my head. could be somethin about how awful her dress is (if she looks 9-10 or a bit snobish to me ) or somethin about her shoes , it can also be about the enviorment...
Thing is you dont have to THINK too much. just shoot. if you just cant think about anything (theres always somethin , you just dont see it probably) just say "HI" .

But I saw too many ppl that didnt approach cuz of the stupid reason of "didnt know what to say " thats wrong.

Ill try to find a video I just saw about natural openers by David Wygant, its helpful too.

Yours always,
pua19.

Good Post! Always a good reminder that the best openers are not certain lines. You are 100% that you can open with words or just non-verbal cues too. If you are confident in what you are doing then it tends to work out.

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the first thing that would post in my is something completly way off the radar lol that how nervous i can be lol i dont want to mess up... the enviroment sounds like a great way to start the convo!