hi guys,

i think i heard tyler mention this in one of his products - that you should be able to open any girl even if she is talking on her cell phone!

i havent yet tried this, but is it a limiting belief that this is just plain rude etc - if not, whats the best excuse if she gives a 'pah' wtf kind of look lol?

i always see loads of HB's talking on their phone - giving me an excuse not to approach - am i just dreaming if i believe that she will hang up to talk to a stranger ?

cheers. kal

Well hears what you DONT do:

DONT walk up, grab her phone, close it, and say "Whats up?". Believe me, that un doesnt work too well...at all...

Hears what you DO do:

DO take out your cell, start walking up right next to her (not directly, but from an angle), and start faking a conversation, loudly, like your telling your bud that you just "found her". better yet, call up a bud, and actually do it, incase you want to put him on speaker for some Over-Tha-Phone Winging. 7.89 times out of 9, she'll just smile and go along with it. The longer you can keep her smiling or laughing, the better. just kinda make something up.

PREREQUISITE:

You better be pretty damn quick on your feet. If your not, please refer to one of the posters below me

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a fair repsonse. i've read about this but never tried... the only issue would be activating her auto 'stalker avoidance program' lol... but i guess if i do it in a funny way it should be ok.... i'll try it a few times. cheers.

Easy one,

Say to her, why are you calling me when i'm standing next to you?

Who are you talking to? (Serious Face) Are you Cheating on Me??? (With Conviction) However you must crack a confident smile as the "Me" is coming out of your mouth. It works very well for me. Once in a blue moon you might get a weird look but I Neg them if that happens. "I apologize, I was wrong for assuming that you had a sense of humor to go with that pretty face." I always NEG with a smile! Doing that can be taken as a flirty tease and help your cause. I will say that 8 of 10 times for me I get a smile from ear to ear with this approach. If she really digs you they hang up and talk to you instead, but most of the time they will make it a point to give you some face time when they hang up and shortly after your line. Note to the Newbies!!! If she smiles but then turns her back, doesn't give eye contact while on the phone, Or seems to be stringing out the call for a long time... Don't linger like a fly that won't die. Her smile could have been a nervous reaction. It's up to you to feel this out. Stay near by if you like but be doing something and turn your side to her. Don't give her the Fish Eye. Remember the goal is comedian not stalker! I hope this helps. Let me know how it does.

"Cinch"

Keep in mind this works really good when a girl is texting too. I mostly use it in that situation. Of coarse then it's "Who are you texting." It works even better if you already know the girl at least a little bit but will still work on strangers.

"Cinch"

here's what you do:-

If a girl checks her phone, or end a call, ask her curiously , "Did HE call??"

Some gals get it and smile,
some preoccupied may ask, "who called"??
you say, " you know, THE guy,..."

any alterations in this openor are welcome