basically i was out last night an there was a pretty much perfect 2 set, a HB10 with a real ug friend who'd be easy for me to talk to. BUT every time i was about to approach they were talking so the question is:

Are you supposed to interrupt the sets conversation?
is it not seen as rude?

Simply put: Nobody cares. Interrupting people isn't exactly an uncommon thing in a club, especially if you are about to make the person's night.

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Exactly. Who gives a shit? Worrying about appearing rude is exactly what's been holding you back all your life so far... think about it this way, if they wanna have a serious conversation with no interruptions, they shouldn't be at the club. My experience is they just stop and talk to me, sometimes I ask what they're talking about and kinda join in, or I just focus on what I wanna talk about. They're only gonna get the chance to meet you this once and if they shoo you away because they're in the middle of something that isn't really that important, let it be their loss. Move onto the next girl.

thanks guys, thinking that im going to make their night and that its their loss if the set fails has really helped my inner game and AA. It was such an AFC thing to think, i guess i was just making excuses not to open. Shooda just followed the 3 second rule

How about at the mall or a coffee shop. Would it still be ok to interrupt girls in game day activities?

I have been avoiding these sets out of fear of being an ass.

Your fear of being an ass, or interrupting them is because you feel what you have to offer isn't worth their time. Now dont tell me you dont think that, because if you didn't think that, you wouldn't mind talking to these girls.

Remeber, this is the hardest thing in my mind to remember. You are giving them an oppurtunity to talk to you, you know your a cool guy, and your just looking around for a cool person, to have a cool conversation.


Think about it when your in a club, coffee shop or whatever, and think if soemone interuppted you to talk to you about cool things and they were interesting, would you think they were impeding on you?


Your not disrespecting anyone when you talk to them. your giving them a chance to meet a really cool person, and you just want to do the same.

samex