I have a problem that i dont know what to say to open on the dance floor. I used 2 just walk up and say can i dance with you? but it didnt work that much can any1 think of any openers? After thinking about that opener i should have said would you like to dance with me?

I am going out sober now which slould be a dhv 4 for myself but i have no rhythm and i have 2 left feet ha. I have tried 2 throw in some funny dance moves like the robot dance 2 get girls attention lol and i try not 2 give a fuck. Also how do u open without saying anything through kino? whether you get eye contact or not from a cold approach?

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I am in no way an expert on this but a friend of mine is. His tips to me were:

1. Take up space with a friend.
2. Be loud and smiling. (He'll suddenly just start screaming, and i mean SCREAM, and laughing over the sound of the music to get other people's attention)
3. Hi 5 your friends, hug them, bounce around with them.
4. Compete with stupid dancing - robot, chicken legs, jazz hands
5. Your friends should be there to back you up so whatever you or they do make sure you're laughing and hi 5ing.
6. Once you've noticed in your periferal vision that people are taking notice and you're running out of crazy dances point at your friend and scream "Oh yeah!" and something about a doubles competition.
7. Turn to a set laugh and say "I need your help" and without asking grab a girls hand and spin her. If she complies grab her and do a tango to continue the dance competition.

The frame from now on is that the girl is part of your team and you're both competing against your friend and whoever he chooses.

Dancefloor opener - You guys cant dance , let me show you how do a silly dance
and the later approach them after they leave the dance floor
im curious about you guys i think you guys are great dancers and are holding back one me?
and stack from there

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This kind of showboats, but I've F closed 3 girls because of it. Learn some basic breakdancing, it's really not hard with a little practice. I learned to breakdance in high school, I put it to good use as I got a little older.

Here's the best way to work it. When you go out somewhere and you anticipate dancing have girls there with you it helps a lot and will social proof you. When the girls are all in their little circle thing dancing you do your little shake and two step thing, try to have some rhythm. Wait for a song with a good beat that you can do a little break to. When that beat comes on you need to get a little circle to form around you. This is where the girls come in handy, they applaud you and cheer and help space out the floor creating the center of attention to you.

I've had as many as 15-20 girls approach me in one night and tell me my moves are awesome and look to hang out and dance with me. I had this one 30 year old woman straight up come over to me after I was done breakin and start grinding on me. She was hot, I'd give her a 9 and she whispers in my ear "if you're as good in bed as you are on the dance floor, I'm in for a great night." I didn't need to do a damn thing other than breakdance.

A solid dancing ability is a very dangerous tool if used correctly. Don't ever talk yourself up about being a good dancer. When someone compliments you say "Thanks" and leave it at that, or if the confidence and attraction is there and you have the ability to pull off the cocky funny bit you can say something like "I learned how to do that in bed....(wait for her head tilt) Hurts a lot less when you fall on the mattress." Laugh at yourself, it shows humility. That line generally gets a girl kind of confused because you have now created a visual for the girl to envision you in bed breakdancing and that will cause her to subconsciously think about your rhythm and movement and your strength etc that you exhibited on the dance floor and apply it to sex.

Another really powerful routine is to say "come on let me show you an easy move" this makes for a great way to do some solid kino escalation as if gives you the power to move her arms and position her in certain ways and touch her waist or legs and move them about without her getting the wrong idea (DO NOT GROPE HER! BE INSTRUCTIVE). I guarantee if you can get her excited about being able to do something easy and harmless when she gets that move completed she will most likely either make a fool of herself which you can use to your advantage and say "we'll save perfecting that move until our next session" or if she nails it she'll be excited and hug you (ioi)

I could go on and on about ways to use dance tactics to complete A1-3 C1-2 in one swift move.

Therm I'm guessing you have more than just basic toprock moves?

Rob,


Usually when I go out unless I'm wearing a t-shirt I try to keep from spinning on the ground too much. I usually will break out a little top rock to get attention and clear the way, maybe do an L kick or a 90 a quick little top rock and then go into a 6 step, and then I'll do a few swipes and go into a half windmill and kick up and lock into a freeze.

All these moves can be learned within a months time with about 20-30 minutes of practice a day. Linking them will take more time, building the balance and strength for freezes will be a little trickier. Well worth it though.