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I'm at a college campus. I don't know anything about this girl, but whenever I do see her she's either alone or talking with this one girl. I've also seen her reading a book. Not being creepy, I just said that because I think this opener is calibrated for a girl like this. I don't know how high other guys would rate her but I think she's hot as fuck.
At the very least, she is attracted to me physically. There's been several days that we've noticed each other and based on body language eye contact etc I got the clues. However, I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not and every other approach I've thought of I'm not sure if I can handle it smoothly, especially as I never open new people. Plus this gets straight to the point, which I like. However, you guys know better than me so you can give me feedback.
So my plan...I walk up to her and tell her there's something I have to get off my chest..after a short silence I say I think she's the prettiest girl I've ever seen(and Id mean it, not just some bs to butter her up), and I'd like to take her on a date but if she's taken or doesnt want to go out I understand and still want to be friends. Then I'll say something like 'Ill let you think about it', if you do decide you want to then I'm usually here in this area of the campus on these days. Then say something like thanks for listening, it feels so much better to get that off my chest. Then leave.
So is this a good or bad opener? AFC or PUA? Creepy if I did this, or ok? My thinking is this would be ok since I'm conveying that I really like her and I want her in my life regardless, but I'm not going to give her constant attention and chase her around like guys usually do with girls, especially when they ahvent earned it. Make her come to me if she wants it. And if she doesnt ever approach me later, at least I manned up and got it off my chest. Expressing myself to a girl is probably the hardest thing for me to do, which makes it extremely difficult having a regular conversation with a hot chick.
Omg.. bro.. what the hell is that man? No disrespect.. that is the most AFC thing you can possibly do in the world of Game. You don't know eachother.. you want to walk up to her and tell her she's the most beautiful girl you've ever seen (that is ok.. but it's still a bit too much in my opinion, just beautiful would work) and than... you dont even know EACHOTHER and you are inviting her on a DATE? With all my sincerity.. I do not recommend you do this man.
#1 Do not invite a girl on a date.. but plant the invitation.. that way it's like she has to earn you.. you're the prize.. dont forget
#2 Please get to know eachother before you go on a date..
#3 If you would be playing poker right now that would be the ALL IN move.. you risk everything.. it can majorly fuck you up or she can say yes..
#4 If she says yes.. it's still not good man.. why? Because you're not the exception of the rule.. you're doing the same thing as every other guy approached her. Tell her she's beautiful bla bla bla. She wants excitement.. a bad boy.. someone different..
#5 Best line you can say: Hey.. I noticed you the other day.. do I know you? I feel like I already saw you somewhere before!
This is the best way you can interact with her and she's going to like it
#6 You tell her think about it and than tell me?? What's to think?? You look like a puppy dog waiting for your master to give food to you.. you look like a guy who's not pre-selected.. you're waiting for a response that you don't even know or that can take 1 year if she doesn't like you.. and you come off as: insecure, needy and many negative emotions
I recommend you use my opener.. than you'll come thank me on how well it worked!
.. Have fun my friend! Good luck in field! Hope I helped!
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