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| belondon | PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:58 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:20 pm Posts: 69 Location: gothenburg sweden | | guys any suggestions to bringing back the fun
I think i must be gaming too much, cos after i have opened a set, I get bored and basically shake hands wish them a good night and go back to my mates or leave... only if they are very interesting do i stay. these days i am trying to find harder and harder sets to open, then when i am controlling there night, i think, humm too easy and leave. last night I was daring myself and my mate to do mad openings. e.g. I opened 2 girls HB7-8 who had a guy sitting in the middle of them with his arms behind them both - looking all "cool and shit" and that p1ssed me off. I also opened a 4 set who were obvious b1tches hb10s... just for the test... i got offered a seat twice and still left ...
I have a few f@ck buddies and these might be making m lazy...
i need a cure...
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| Abdul-aAfc | PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 4:34 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:12 pm Posts: 677 Website: http://freepua.tk Location: England | | What you need is a different reason to game. before i am sure you gamed only to get f closes. So maybe if you now decided to try and get a gf it will
solve your problem
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| belondon | PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:29 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:20 pm Posts: 69 Location: gothenburg sweden | | a gf.... oh jeez.... thats serious stuff.
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| L.H. | PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 7:21 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Nov 22, 2008 8:03 pm Posts: 84 Location: Denmark | | Id love to see some pro answers on this one.
However, I think Abdul is right..
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| HomeWrecker | PostPosted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 5:50 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Apr 21, 2008 1:16 pm Posts: 54 | | Abdul I reckon is on the right track.
I have this problem too. I can open a lot of groups, get numbers and meet up with girls and then sleep with them fairly easily, a bit of effort is required though. This results in my friends asking me why I don't do it more often.
What made you game in the first place?
For me it was likely insecurity. Insecurity over the fact that I hadn't been with many women, Insecurity of dying alone, insecurity about my desiribility and being sick and tired of being alone.
Which points to two motives. One I felt the need to compete with my mates and to qualify myself to the world. Secondly, I felt the need to give myself a worthwhile purpose.
If you have read the game by Neil Strauss you might have read the line:
"We may have been supermen in the club, but on the inside, we were rotting."
Change your beleifs and you will likely get over this problem.
For me I decided that I enjoy entertaining people, communicating with them and showing them a good time (girls usually ask for my number these days). I might also find someone I have a serious connection with. If something happens, it happens. If not well thats ok too. It's not really a pick up artist approach but it works for me.
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| NiceGuyWithAnEdge | PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 12:22 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:21 am Posts: 3 | | I seem to have the opposite problem. I get into sets and usually shake hands and leave for awhile not because I find it to be too easy, but rather because I find the people I'm talking to be boring as hell. I'm thinking that I won't find the kind of girl I'm looking for in a bar scene, since I'm lookin for the kind of girl who dosen't go to bars or clubs. I'm looking for a deep girl, and most of them who frequent the campus bars seem to be shallow.
At least you're getting F closes - right now I'm not able to nor would I want an F close with some of the mindless filth which is walling around in the campus bars.
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