Hey guys.. I am an AFC who hasent got laid even though im 19 years old.. I've never been desperate enough to get a girlfriend by myself, the only ones i had were always through friends so i feel like ive gotten lucky with them.

The girls that i did date i liked before we actually started dating. When i get with a girl she becomes boring to me in like 2 weeks and i dont even want to speak with her after 3.

Right now i bough a book by Neil Strauss "Rules of the Game" and the first day of thechallange is to go out and small talk with 5 strangers. When i bought the book i was excited.

But now i went back to sittin on the computer till 5-7 in the morning (playin poker, pool or some useless activity) and when i wake up i do the same all evening. I feel like crap and like i havent achieved anything in life and i can see other people thinking that way too.

So my desperate questions to you guys is :

"What is the best Mindframe to have to get yourself out of the house ?"
&
"There is nothing to do in my town, how would u cope with all the boredom in my situation(cant join clubs couse dont have money now,student)"

Thanks a great deal for all the replies in advance..

What I think you need to do is go out. Force yourself out of the house, and just change the downward cycle your putting yourself through.

At the same time, I highly recommend you take a good hard look at yourself, and figure out what you want from this life and whether or not what your doing right now is going to achieve that.

Now I really understand your situation with girls, because I used to go through the same thing. I then realized the reason why I get bored from these girls after two weeks is because I am a boring person. Well, im not really a boring person, but I guess you feel that their starting to get to you know you and you don't want that to happen, so your interest in them fades.

If you changed your perspective and realized how cool/interesting you can be, you will that want that from women. Next thing you know, every girl will be like a unwrapped present, you will be so excited to unwrap.

Your in the right place, alot of people here are honest to god good people, with awesome advice.

Good Luck

heh thanks man that got me thinking.. ill try and figure it out somehow