So i was in this club and my friend tells me i bet you couldnt pull this girl, she was quite stunning good looking and confident. I just froze i kept going over in my mind that id get rejected and then i would look like a complete dick in front of my friends aswell. Any tips on clearng your mind and approaching a girl who you think is out of your league. I have no problem pulling average looking girls but i stutter and fall down when it comes to the hot ones?

Seems like the only thing stopping you was that you would lose the respect of your friends if you got rejected... But seriously where any of them approaching her? either way you would be "the man" even if you got blown out because you had the balls to even walk up to her.

Seems like your inner game needs a little bit of work, you need to get into the mind set of who cares what happens, and who cares what people think. that way no matter the outcome it wont affect you all that much.

Simple advice: just go for it. Chances are if you haven't done this much, you'll get shot down. This is fine. Dealing with this is one of the early obstacles you just have to face. When I go to a club and open a set and don't get a reaction it's tough. The silver lining is that this gets easier the more you do it. Opening a set, is an accomplishment in itself so if you don't close--no big deal--just try and build from it.

Some people recommend trying soft or easier openers on everyone you see just to help with this. Some people go after UGs (HBs < 7) and try easy openers. Talking with anyone at a club/bar and being social makes you look better, no matter who you're speaking too.

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