I met this girl and I had no intentions of getting with her. I really didn't care at first but as I have gotten to know her more, I'm starting to just really like her in every aspect. I got her number, I got her talking, I've had lunch with her and everything. Apparently, her best friend ends up being one of my very good friends and so me and this girl have become good friends as well.

I'm really interested and would like to turn this into a relationship but I am not good with the relationship close. I'm good with getting numbers, and leading the conversation to sex and kino and all that stuff but when it comes to liking some one to the extent of wanting a relationship... I tend to lack game in that department.

I want you guys to analyze everything I've done up to now and tell me what your thoughts are, and I want people that really know what they're doing to respond.

So far, everytime I see her she is always going for hugs and we probably hug like once every 2 minutes. lol But the reason it doesn't mean much is because she is like that even with her gf's so its hard to tell whats in her head. And I've done lots of KINO haha but I never led it to a kiss because she is not just any woman, I don't want to lose this person period. Uhm for Christmas, I actually got her a nice gift, it was a surprise hidden in a chocolate box, it was a nice bracelet from tiffany's. She was speechless, she broke down in tears, and hugged me and that was that but the problem is that I hit her up through text messages and our convos are very slow it doesn't look like its moving anywhere towards the direction I had intended. Plus, what I got her for Christmas, she wore it that night I gave it to her and she even text me about how she is wearing it. (does that mean anything).

The reason why I'm not pushing it is because she means a lot to me and losing her would bring some emptiness to life and I would probably end up picking up all kinds of girls just to replace that emptiness but I really don't want to go through that trouble anymore. I just want to settle down and focus on my studies.

Now, another problem is she is Catholic, and her family is very culture oriented. She can't date outside her circle of Catholics, is that a big issue? or something that can be fixed. How do you get over these humps?

Any advice?

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