As a PUA getting the first one done is the hardest. I think an important quality to use in any pickup is momentum. From my experiences the more that you do the more you want to do. At the same time when you get on a roll you can build huge amounts of social power within yourself. You start feeling like you can do anything.

I find that when working, working out, gaming, and anything in life the more that you do the more you want to do. It's a weird phenomenon but it is one that works and we should use it to our advantage. I know that I have talked about it before but I want to hammer the point home over and over again in my mind.

In the last three days I've been blasting away at my theory on the foundational building blocks to success. I've been developing what I think are the key underlying principles to achieving success anywhere and I'm implementing my new thoughts into my game. I'll write that up soon. On that note the more I work at it the more I want to work at. It has also inspired me to write even more in my blog.

I think it as a human we are conditioned to really do whatever we do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If your playing war craft all day and your comfortable doing it then that's all you want to do all day. My goal is to create massive amounts of moments in my business, my fitness, and love life . These are the fundamental pillars to happiness I believe.

It all comes down to the more we work at it the more we will work it. The other night I was having trouble approaching and to break out of my bad routine I started to build momentum by opening guys and girls with extremely simple things and ejecting. Once I had done that about 5 to 7 times I started to really open up and I got the flow going. Then I got into a great conversation with a super hot girl and got her number. Turning a crappy night into a good night.

This illustrated to me that you have to break out of the routine your in and start building momentum little bit by little bit. Then you build up to bigger chunks, but you have to do it quickly to maintain your momentum.

Legend

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I couldn't agree more.

I've always thought that "An object in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted on by an equal or greater opposite force." Learn from the wise.

It's science (and dorky), but I believe that that law applies to our personal lives too.

WE ARE THE FORCE!

p.s. Fill us in on your success theory developments

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-Swede

It completely does. The more we do the more we want to do. If we can all live by that it I think it would help a lot. It just taking action and continually taking action by using momentum and motivation. I think we get the motivation and mentum down we can take positive action that before was very difficult. I've been working a lot on these simple yet complex driving principles I think I've got it down to a system. I'll be sharing it in a SPAM confrence here in january.

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