Hey guys i know there are plenty of topics on aa and ive tried all the help. I've tried the inner game thinking "I'm better than they are" and to try to approach that doesn't work, i tried the 3s rule but that ended up failing too as my feet moved in the opposite direction. It's not that i can't think of an opener or im scared what they might say in fact nothin runs threw my brain i'm just there trying to move. In fact its not just Hot women its ugly ones too. And its not just women in my age group or women in genreal its approaching people all together. Today i lost my keys and i was scared stiff just to ask someone if i may see a phone. I've tried the 200 approaches in month mystery said but i couldn't even do three right before i was scared to do another. I hardly can approach my friends when i walk by them unless there my best friends why don't know its different if someone comes to me or there next to me. How can i get rid of this

When i was younger i was pretty open to talking to strangers, but in high school i guess a bunch of systematic rejections kinda killed my willingness to approach strangers. I just read The Game, and am working on breaking back out of my shell. I know how you feel man.

Honestly, i didn't know what terrified me so much either. But the opinion openers have really been helping to kill the AA. Not only are they short and sweet, but even if you just get her opinion, say thanks, and walk away, you still didn't get rejected. Also, once in awhile you'll get a girl who's just really talkative, and will actually open threads with you, making the transition into DHV's easier.

I personally like to start the cologne opener with a bunch of checks on my wrists, and i usually write my number and a random number too just to generate fake proof. I know it's deceptive, but it's just a harmless ploy to make her more comfortable writing her # down next to one of the others.

read my post, i was exactly like you

ITS A GAME!!! Believe that statement It is just a game you got nothing to lose