Im trying to figureo ut some goals i should make for myself. Like getting blown out 6 times or approuch 5 girls each time I go out. Does anyone have any good suggestion goal wise to try and build up more cofidence and feild exprenice?

Goals:

Goal 1: Decide how many nights a week
Goal 2: Decide how many approaches at night (a minimum)

Choose something that pushes yourself but it also a realistic goal

I like to have a couple of little abstract goals like:
1: Just to make the girl laugh (just feels great to get a girl laughing, and its great for confidence)

I dont remember where it was but I am sure with a bit of searching you can find the "100 openers list" the guy who posted the list sugested printing it out and simply going through every single opener and ticking them off as you do them. I thought that was a great little game to play. Some openers were direct, situation, some silly, but nonetheless all good fun.

Another little goal/game from the Mystery method was to go out with a wing, give your wing $100 and every time you open you earn $10 back.

Good luck! although we know its not luck, maybe I should say Good Skills!