Im having difficulty with this chick.

I am usually quite good at getting flirty etc, in this kind of situation.

We've kissed a few times a few month ago, so only really chat online now.

Thing is, shes was never really that outspoken or forward.

But when we chat online its like

me: "what are u doing 2nite"
her: "bla bla bla. u?"
me " bla bla bla"

Like an interview, no emotions etc.

How can I progress this, I've read that asking questions is good, but they should be evoking emotion/ connection.

Any ideas how I can do this?

I am having same problem with you it is really hard to do this espacially over texts, for me I just see her in person as much as I can. Would like to hear what other ppl have to say though.

It is better to talk in person... being on the computer and chatting in my opinion gives off the signal that you have nothing better to do all night...

BUT if you have to...

When I was in highschool (6 or 7 years ago... time flies by) I would play a game with girls online that I was interested in. AIM was pretty big when I was in highschool (and so was napster!).

You should say: Hey, I think we should play again. I get tired of asking these common questions with everybody. So I thought it would be sweet to change things up. You are FORBIDDEN to ask any common questions (how are you? what did you do today? etc...) and instead you have to come up with something more deep.... I'll go first...

Then you just play along. It usually ended up we only asked 2 or 3 questions and ended up making convo off of those the rest of the night. It gave an excuse to keep playing the game on other nights we were online...

Example questions:
ever broken any bones? how?
most embarrassing moment?
etc...

I don't remember how I worded it, but it usually worked... But I avoid online at all costs now (just personal preference).

--QB

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