Wat up fellow players ,
I've been in the community for bout 5-6 months now and so far wat I've accomplished is got rid of my approach anxiety, developed my own good pattern of day game(based off mystery's method) and quite a few number closes following the dates and stuff, but thers a long way to go for me!
Here's some thing i would like to contribute to the beginners or even others
But there's some thing I've observed, canned openers are some times not ideal and not so romantic ,women are sensing them a mile away and u have to keep in mind women love to get swept off their feet (I'm talkin quality chicks that are HB 7-9 and are fun
).So here are few openers I got it on the spot or how to use the surroundings for the opener,
If your in a bar and a women see's u and makes a eye contact, hold onto her eye contact until she see's away(important dont cut it first). now here's wher the canned opener are not really authentic bcoz if she had ur eye contact that means she wants u to grow some ballz and go talk to her already! so here's an example of wat i would say..
eye contact.... see if she is in a set and know ur strategy, if she is single just go for it
me: u know its rude if u just stare at me and not talk to me....(stupid smirk on the face)
here she could give u few options , she may smile and u can transition or she may shit test u or just simple talk!
So thats how u can simple break the ice without too much of an opinion openers..
Ur at a coffee shop(i love this) ,see a attractive chick and she is "studyin" now is a good time to use the canned openers.
Here's the simple thing u need to understand its all in the right attitude, energy and place.
have a normal conversation and dont expect any results...remember its just talk..if it clicks then transitions but be confident in what you are doin.
keep on practicing guys!
~V~
CHAT