I feel like a wett kitten stuck in a rain storm.


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Ok so i have a class at school intermediate weight lifting.... Well ends up we have one girl...which happens to be one of the hottest girl in the whole college. ....so the first day i ask to borrow a pen get her name talk to her a little bit. as time goes on i find out im am the strongest and biggest guy in the class...I was a personal trainer...and besides the other guys are pretty weak. I catch my self just starring at her its like my eyes are drawn to her..along with every body else in the class but she always talks to this one other guy...guessing a friend

Well the other day i happen to park next to her and we both drive the same car she says hi first i acknowledge her make a funny comment about us having the same car then we meet in class...close to the end im doing abs on the pull up bar and she comes up and does them to..the whole time she take one head phone out so she can listen to me and ive yet to say anything...so i open with a bold SPAM

me :ive always wonder something
her: whats that
me :what made you take this class
her : idk i always work out anyway but im the only girl
me : thats not a bad thing "grin"
her : i guess not
go back to working out make a little small talk then bam
i go soooooo.....blank mind nothing comes out
then she says she gotta go class ended...and says justin right
me :ya then i look like im guessing and say katie??
she smiles and walks off....

i need help getting this hb

haha damn you suck! you got massive IOIs, she comes next to you and she pulls out 1 head phone just to listen to you and you dont even make your move... this girl is actually dying to meet you.

you are lucky that i am not in your class!

the thing is, she likes you, but you have to stay a challange for her. dont just go easy on her because you know she likes you.

at least you didnt fuck up and you will see her again.
i hope she didnt feel that you were nervous/anxious (because then you blew it) and she just feels that she must work harder to get you, because she didnt succeed by just being next to you.

And dont stare at her like a creep! All the other guys do that you say, be the one guy that doesnt. (always do that in any situation)

just tell her next time:
I always see you and we always do small talk, but I actually dont know much about you and who you really are...
so tell me... who is "katie" (or whatever her name is or whatever you want to call her)
>she probably cant answer that one right away, if she does try and says something like "i'm sweet/caring/blabla" then its a massssive IOI.
> lets presume she cant answer, tell her:
If you would be famous for something what would it be?
> she'll try something celebrity like
I dont mean famous like a celebrity, just simple stuff about you, like what are you famous for amongst your friends & family.... its about you.... tell me about you....

so you are stating a bit of interest in her, but she's not there yet! because you are qualifying her.... is she good enough for me?
you should put everything in the context of "i am testing you". she must feel that... that way you are a challenge and she will like you even more.

after that just do some fluff talk, talk about anything

make sure you set up somethign low-key for you and her to meet somewhere... something non-threatening, something that is not considered a date. just something simple, fun and low-key. if she agrees on it then just tell her "punch in your number" and you go to level 2.

its a done deal man, she already dreams about you asking her out, dont sweat it. (she's probably already day-dreaming about you)