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Ok so I know this may be over analyzing and might no have relevance but it has always been something I have been very curious about. I am constantly wondering if " I wonder if she thinks im hot"
Being in college I am constantly walking past women in the halls, what i want to know is if their eye contact means anything?
Sometimes I will make eye contact with a girl and she will immediately look down?
Sometimes i will make eye contact with a girl and she will look off to the side?
I heard its bad if she just looks straight ahead or over you like you're not even there but very rarely do I see them hold eye contact or look back
I wouldn't/don't give much heed to what the look means - if she's attractive, just approach instead of analyzing the situation. But smile as you approach - you will find that people are very reflective and will smile back. A smile costs very little and if that's all you do, you will make her day.
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Im not a bad looking guy but Ive been told I have an angry look to me, maybe thats the problem.
But for being a decent looking guy I dont think Ive ever had a girl walk by and smile at me. I want that.
To be honest mate, I have a pretty angry look too 'cause I have fairly arched eye brows, but what can help is if you just think of something which makes you laugh (Family Guy, Blackadder, Robot Chicken - whatever floats your boat) or just make it a habit to smile at people who make eye contact with you, even if its forced at first, it will eventually become nature.
If you want her to smile at you, smile at her first - she will follow accordingly. I'm quite used to smiling I guess 'cause I work in medicine and healthcare anyway, but I was smiling at people before I got into all that. And besides it doesn't only make other people feel good, it makes you feel good too. Don't worry about meaning, just enjoy making people's day and if you happen to be attracted to her and she smiles back, you're off to a good start with the girl, 'cause its basically a nice thing to do.