So theres this HB7.5 (but my type big time) who works at this mom and pop corner store by my house. I dont go there often, but Ive now been in there 2 days in a row, for 2 honest legit reasons and I really wanna step my game up and try to # close this girl. 2 days ago, I was in there to send out a few packages since they are a postal outlet. And today I was in there to buy a chocolate milk after my workout.

In reality Im just still having trouble getting over the AA part. I can tell that this girl is sorta shy as well since she doesnt really talk unless a) she has to cuz of her job b) I speak to her. The first day I was in there for atleast 15 mins, since there was this confusing problem with one of the packages I was trying to send out, and her boss had to help out, but I did my best to make some humour outta the situation, and I felt like I got an IOI or 2 from her. Today, my goal was to get into some sort of convo with her, but all I could muster up was "Hey hows it going?" Atleast I said something though, right?

Anyways, I know im gonna have to go back to the store in about a week to send out some more packages, so next time id like to take the convo beyond "hey watsup..." So if anyone can give me some advice on how I should go about this that'd be great. I think my inner game is just my biggest problem right now. Some advice on how to deal with that would be greatly appreciated as well. Thanks.

Don't mistake IOI's from just plain nerves. If she's a beta, she could be very nervous in a lot of situations and do things that make you think she's sending you IOIs up the wazoo. (psst, btw: it's good that your inner game assumes they're IOI's. Always assume attraction. You're not giving yourself enough credit, Fogell. You've already got the mindset to become a great PUA in you. You just have to learn to notice it yourself )

As for next time, I'm going to give you some lines, but I don't want you to rely on them for the conversation to work. You'll learn nothing that way. I'm giving them to you as a slight push to get you rolling.

"Sup, girl? (AND SAY IT EXACTLY LIKE THAT!!!) I've gotta get these to *location*.

(In a joking tone) Just don't ask what's in it, for your own safety.

(once she asks what's in it) Wow, you have no survival instincts."

(regardless of what she says) "Nah, it's cool man (btw, I've found that calling a girl "man" is a great disqualifyer), but you definately have lost some points in my book".

Just let the firting flow. You'll get it. I trust you.

-June

thanks...i guess ill try and be fun n playful next time im there...I dont want to be too direct yet, but I dont want to show any disinterest as well. Iunno, i feel like i should just wing it...but I know that if i do, my AA will take over so it'll prolly be best to have some scripted material ready to go.

Srew scripted material bro. Go and do your thing specialy if you still got AA. Let it be spontaneous. The best way to get over AA is to just go and wing it. I never used scripted material in my life, only stuff I read or watched. Dont stress it, go do it and tell us how it went

Personally, I would not use the "Hey Girl blah blah" lines. If she's shy like you said, it's going to be really awkward. Try to build comfort first by asking her questions such as how long she has been working there, school, etc. Once comfort has been built, you can start calling her by a nickname or something, and be cocky funny.

just my 0.02

walk in and tell her you want an application, then as she is reaching to get one say "to be your boyfriend." Say this with the right attitude and small grin and it should work.

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Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want

hahahaha I like that...Im not sure if I have the balls to do that...plus this corner store is right by house, and whenever I have to mail out packages thats where I go so if I get rejected id have to go to a different postal outlet. I do like that though hahaha

but do you want to be her boyfriend? do you know her well enough? maybe she's a total bitch or an idiot

Well obviously I dont know her well enough to know if id want her to be my gf...but as far as looks go, Id certainly like to go out with her. Thats why I gotta step my game up so I can find out. Right now my strategy is to go in there like im there to mail some parcels, start off by making some small talk, then go with a good opinion opener to make further conversation. Then wing it the rest of the way pretty much.

I also have 2 packages I need to send out next week so I think im gonna split them up, and send them on 2 seperate days...therefore I can try and build some repoir on day 1, then on day 2 if im comfortable enough, go for the #-close.

Anybody have thoughts of me going in there and mailing out parcels on 2 seperate days instead of just sending them out all on the same day...my rational is that I have 2 days in a row to game, and get the close on day 2 instead of rushing it on day 1.

2 separate parcels is fine. For all she cares you sell stuff on Ebay. If she asks, tell her you run a home business making erotic sculptures out of twist ties or something equally ridiculous. Work from there.

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I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering into her mouth!

went in there today with both parcels...and pretty much blew it yet again...couldnt get past nothing but small talk related to the items I was sending. I dont get whats wrong with me, but i need some serious help with my AA.

(for those who listen to jim rome, you'll understand this...)

Dear Fogell,

Boom. Outta here.

Signed, Your Confidence

i like that. lol but any backup plan if it doesnt works?

Relax man! There's no reason to be nervous around a girl. Most girls would love to be flirted with in an innocent way in that type of situation. She's just another human. A cute, smiling girl who likes puppies and has romantic thoughts about being flirted with by a nice new guy. Be that guy. Go in there and make her smile...
: )

My post is over a month late, but I figured I'd post to say that this is not a good idea at all.