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I am not talking about girls that I work with, I am talking about random girls that I see out on there lunch break while at work. So approaching them would be totally random as I have nothing in common with them and have no "legitimate" excuse to approach. Totally cold approach.
It is becoming apparent to me that get ahead of myself and need to work on my attitude and not be so focused on results. Getting feeback from you guys helps me get my head straight I appreciate it. Sometimes it is hard to control your feelings in situations like this.
Cold approach secret - Approach in the most indirect way you can in order to not scare your target.. I don't know about you.. but you have to start reading some books or look at 21 convention videos on youtube.. you have to see some MPUA's material man.. Mistery Method is unbelievable.. even more in daygame because of the indirect approach.. I recommend you read the book if you didn't read it alreay I don't think you would be posting this question..
Example
PUA: Hey I'm in a real hurry right now.. I am in great need of a female opinion.. you see.. the GF of a very good friend of mine kissed another girl.. and I don't know if I should tell him.. is that considered cheating in your book?
This is rougly mistery method.. it works man this guys a genius.. but what you could also indirectly is this
* Let's say your in a mall*
PUA: Hey I'm sorry I'm in a hurry.. I need a female opinion on these glasses.. which one of those suits me better?
Simply as that.. you have to hook them up.. your mindset is: you need a pair of glasses.. not the fucking girl.. so don't give a shit about her.. she's a human being
In daygame.. what's important is also: Approach Invitations
*Look for them all the time man*
Approach invitations:
- eye contact
- comments on something when you're near her and she wants you to hear it in order for you to engage her
- you can also look at her bodylanguage when you're near her..
You can also go by saying: Hey I need an opinion.. is this ketchup good for pasta or not?
Directly when she engages back.. IT'S ON man.. and than you need to multiplethread to another subject.. that's the hardest part.. if you're capable of doing that.. you end up picking her up. It's hard when talking about ketchup to jump from that to what's your name? or anything like that.. so you must be fast on your feet. I recommend you train in clubs first! Peace out! Good luck!