Hey guys, I used to post some shit over here like 8 months ago and most pf my problems were due to a problem I discovered a while ago - low Testosterone (558 for a 17 year old)
Well, Ive cured that and started doing some approaches and I gotta say the follow up part is impossible. Can anybody link me GOOD routines? That arent autistic like 80% of them.
Just to make a point of how I need better routines I'll detail last nights approach. Was at a mall with 3 friends. Saw a girl sitting on a bench glued to her phone and did rock papers scissors, my friend lost but chickened out so I went anyway. This is how it went:
"Hey, can you answer me a question for a sec"
"Whats better, dogs or cats?"
"Lol what? Dogs."
"In that case...woof woof"
"How old are you?"
"20, lets go for a walk"
"No sorry, im waitig for a friend"
Anyone gimme r00teens pl0x
I hate routines as they are a crutch and eventually you run out of material and come off fake.
What hobbies do you have? - Getting yourself into interesting activities creates talking points
What TV do you watch? Again relatable conversation. Roll off into films, actors, debate about them and lead into films you both like.
Places you've been to, tell real life stories if relevant to the conversation.
You need to have an interesting life and use those things you experience and enjoy in life as conversational topics.
So take up a hobbie you find interesting, attend events you like and build a social circle. Eventually you will have more relatable topics to talk about that relate to you, and most women find that more interesting, as it's authentic and not try hard.
Lame questions like "Do you like cats or dogs" sounds creepy and try hard.
Pick up is not a quick process. The minute you fill your life with interesting things you are into, the easier it will be with women.