Here is my explanation of How to Open, Types of Openers, and much more.

Opening, something many many AFCs can't do, at all.
It brings two or more people into their own world and creates a bond beyond being strangers.
The point of the opener??
To get the set(group of people) interested in You, and to portray that you are a high status guy.

So, let's start off with what you DON'T want to do.
A guy walks up to a couple of girls and asks in a totally unconfident tone, "H-Hii there. D-Do you guys come here often? Yeah, pretty cool place isn't it? haha"

NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!

Please, if anyone would hate these girls soo much to put them through this kind of misery.. just,, No.

When you open, you want to show these people Who you are.
You want to show them that you're a totally confident guy who knows who he is and has purpose in life.

Here are some keys things you'll need to open:
- Strong/Loud Tonality (Not screaming, but solid)
- Relaxed Body Language (Not falling asleep, but comfortable)
- Playfulness/Energy (Not OMGOMGOMGOM!!! but smiling and fun)

Before opening a girl, you need to know this: Women are very VERY observational.

It'll probably take 2 seconds - 2 minutes for them to notice you when you first enter a club, cafe, w/e.

You need to have the key things I listed at all times.
Smile when entering a building, (Not :DDD, but a simple )

Okay, so Peacocking.
Peacock theory shows.. peacockiness.
Did you ever notice the peacock with the most colors with the craziest pattern tends to get the most chicks??

Now why is this? Well attraction is based on instinctive survival.
It shows, "Hey, look at me. As much as I stick out, I'm still live and healthy, no lion as gotten me yet! I'm almost invincible!!"

As where people who brag say, "Hey, I can do this, I have lots of money and I have everything you need in order to survive. Let's fuck now."

.. Peacocky Person vs. Braggart

Winner: Peacocky Person

So, dress in weird ways that stick out to the human eye, whether it's a company suit with a completely weird tie and hiker boots.
Whether it's a magician hat with weird bracelets.. Anything you know girls will comment on.

Just don't go dressing like a Clown..

Now that you have all the keys down (basically), let's move onto.... OPENING!
yay!

but h/o I have to go eat. Enjoy while you're at it.
That was a nice meal.

Okay so, I want you to analyze this scene:
3 girls decided to go out to a club. A guy calls them over, compliments them, and buys them all beers. All of the sudden, another guy pops up, makes fun of the girls, and right before he walks away, the girls are all over this guy.

What happened??! The other guy was being "nice" and bought them all beer, and was a "sweetie".

HAHA. Very funny, Our minds naturally find excuses for our action to give us no signs of being a "bad" person.
So the guy really does think he's nice for buying drinks and complimenting, when it really portrays, "I bought you guys drinks. Let's fuck."

Our minds are horrible, horrible liars.

Now let's look at the "bad guy". This guy, is The Guy. He showed the girls he was more valuable than they were and he showed he didn't care what they thought of him because he was just, That good.

Females instinctively follow men that are superior and leading. (Alpha males)
They don't want a guy who needs approval from people, that's not being superior and leading.
The guy has to know what he's doing. And this guy is known to have "Prizability".

The girls assume, "Wow, this guy is making fun of us. He must deff. get a lot of girls."

Not like "You're fucking ugly, I hate you, Go Die."
No.

When you "make fun of them" you are actually negging them. Which is VERY important to do when opening. I'll come back on Negs later.

So this guy is completely sure of himself, he's fun and playful, and he demonstrates being not needy and very confident. Candy for girls.

Okay that's all cool but, HOW DO I APPROACH A WOMAN??!!!!

Dude, are you always this bossy? Wow, you don't get out much do you?
<-- Perfect example of a Neg.

So here we are, You see a couple of girls. Clueless of what to say. "You like jazz?? Nono, that's stupidd. Ohh how about... Noooo."

Most openers usually do not involve personal things about the people you're approaching. If you do, they'll know.. Okay, he's soo trying to pick us up.

Here are some examples:
- "Hey guys, I need a quick opinion on something. Who lies more, men or women??"
- "Hey guys, I have a question. Do women think lip rings are hot?? How about on me?? *use fingers to make a ring around your lip*"
- "Hey guys, did you see that fight outside??! Omg, there were these two chicks, one fat and one anorexic, speak of Jerry Springer huh.. and..."
- "Hey guys, is there a gay bar around here?? I'm not gay, but my friend here, she LOVES to talk to gay men."

You see a pattern?? These are questions that don't involve You hitting on Her. They could be asked to anyone. It just Happened to be her.

:Now wait a minute!! Won't they know I've used this on every other girl I met?

Nope, as far as they know, You're just some guy wanting an opinion on something.

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These openers, have to have the target talking and involved. The more involved, the better.

Here's one I made up:
Me: Hey guys, where's the bathroom around here?
Her: Umm, Bla bla bla.
Me: Ohh.. Where?? (Back up a little, she leans in)
Her: I said bla bla bla.
Me: Haha, oh my god. Speak up girl!! (Punch her lightly on the shoulder and then facing her friends) How can you put up with this girl?? She doesn't get out much does she?

Now what did I do?
The girl was talking. I said something else and she responded again!!
Her unconscious mind will think, "Wow, I'm having a conversation with this guy, unlike 50 other men."

And it wasn't boring like "Ohhh, heyyyy.. What's up?"
It was fun and playful.

So analyzing this situation:

Me: Hey guys, where's the bathroom around here? <--opening statement
Her: Umm, Bla bla bla. <--response
Me: Ohh.. Where?? (Back up a little, she leans in) <-- When I lean back, I show I'm comfortable, and she leans in, making her unconscious mind be attracted to me.
Her: I said bla bla bla. <-- She feels as if she isn't understood clearly, self-neg, but initiated by me.
Me: Haha, oh my god. Speak up girl!! <- DHV
(Punch her lightly on the shoulder and then facing her friends) <-- Kino, DHV, and Neg)
How can you put up with this girl?? <-- Neg
She doesn't get out much does she? <-- Neg

This was all said in a playful yet masculine sort of way. A decent opener indeed.

Comments are always appreciated!! I'll be adding on more LATER.

I personally dont like the bathroom opener. What if its not that loud? she will think you're deaf or something. Plus its not a very smooth transition from asking where the bathroom is to negging her, she doesnt deserve the neg at all at that point. And they can cock block you instantly by saying "didnt u want to go to the bathroom or something?" what will you say to that?

other stuff is good tho, just a bad opener.

When it is not that loud you can have another routine prepared to follow the bathroom opener. Or simply use another opener depending on the situation. Just adapt to the situation as you always should.

And when you have done this routinge you might actually go to the bathroom as an to demonstrate you are genuine. Then later you might reopen the set. With for instance a story about some guy in the bathroom who seemed to use some suspicous looking white powder.

I like this opener since it does not get much more indirect and harmless than this. Asking where the bathroom is is after all a perfectly valid and normal question.

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i think this is a really good post and where i think he is dead on the money is when he said this:

Here are some keys things you'll need to open:
- Strong/Loud Tonality (Not screaming, but solid)
- Relaxed Body Language (Not falling asleep, but comfortable)
- Playfulness/Energy (Not OMGOMGOMGOM!!! but smiling and fun)

this is something that a lot of new PUI's lack and is something they need to really take on board... as far as the bathroom opener is concerned i really liked Xenu's way of approaching that opener... im gonna try that one

Thanks for the replies guys, I really haven't had the time I thought I would've had to type another essay's worth of this.

I will do it eventually though.