I was in the shower this morning and thinking about this amazing girl I had met that works at Hallmark. I was trying to think of a good opener and came up with one. However, after a few moments of fine tuning it and divine enlightenment, I realized this could be used on any set.

PUA: "Can I get your opinion on something?"

HB: "Sure"

PUA: "My brother is having a birthday coming up and I don't know what kind of card to get him. Should I get him a funny card, or a serious one, or what?"

HB: She will tell you what kind of card to give.

PUA: "That's a great idea. You know you can really tell a lot about a person's personality from the type of cards they choose." Go into a cold reading.

HB: "Thats amazing. haha. Thats so funny that you can tell everything about me like that."

PUA: "If you think thats funny you should see the text my friend sent me today. He sent me some examples of birthday cards for my brother. Do you get text messaging? I'll send it to you?"

HB: "yeah my number is 123-555-1234"

Later that day text her, but don't send the card. Say

HB: "Since you're so good at decision making what kind of party should I throw for him?"

Get her feedback and talk the party up. Make it sound amazing and then invite her. Even if you don't have a bday party to throw call her back a few days later. Tell her your brother has to work or so on. Then invite her to do something else.

I still need to field test this and fine tune it, but I think it should work well.

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Its not the words you speak, but the conviction of your actions. And with this said know that I am the prize.

Not bad, however if your target is somewhat intelligent:

HB: So because you can't decide on what card to get, does that mean you're an indecisive person? (Girls like decisive men)

PUA: Uh.... This is the part where you're supposed to be intrigued and ask me what it means if you suggest a serious card...

HB: What?


lol... Just saying, anything that can go wrong WILL go wrong. However, field testing this may be the way to go. I'm expecting a higher success rate than failure.

Oh, nice to see such positivity and optimism here. Man, if you're expecting negative results, that's what you'll get, and that's what you'll deserve. Start thinking more positively, or else suffer the fate of having no women in your life.

Anyway, about that your card shop opener, I've used this one myself and I'm shocked to see someone else using something similar, as it I thought of this opener myself. I've field tested this lots of times and always gotten a positive reaction. It's great around valentine's day too. It also works on girls walking round a mall, just stop them and ask them this question.

Don't sarge the girls working in the card shop. Instead, approach girls in the shop who are looking for cards. I'll tell you why....because if you approach someone working there, you can't keep going back in to run the same opener. Whereas if you approach customers, you can simply go back into that card shop anytime and run the routine.

Best of luck. This opener works fine, if you're a confident person (like me) and get the non-verbals correct (body language/tone of voice, etc).