Hello y'all

so im pretty good with daygame cold approach specially when im out with a wing

its very easy to start approaching cause we push each other. im able to cold approach and number close

my questions is most of the times when im solo or sometimes when im not alone

but specially when im solo daygaming i get in my head and takes me a long time to start approaching

sometimes i would get so stuck up in my head i won't even approch!!

so anyone has a suggestions would be more than welcome


PS: the 3 seconds rule doesn't really work for me!

Meet up with your wing and tell him:

'Here is $30, do not give me this money until I have approached 10 girls solo'

Then force yourself to approach. I know it's different solo, but if you really want to handle it then you got to desensitised yourself. It's kind of common sense.

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This is how I push myself, I don't know if it will work for you but I got the idea from the book 'the natural'.
I wrote down about 10 affirmations like "i'm great with women","I'm confident", etc. remember that your subconscience doesn't understand positive and negative in one sentence, so don't use things like "women don't ignore me" or "I don't have approach anxiety" those are a negative term to your inner mind. instead, use things like "I have overcome approach anxiety" or "I can approach beautiful women successfully".

now, when you have those written down, put them in an order that can go along with your favorite song. for instance, I use Chumbawamba.

Listen to your song, and read those affirmations to yourself through the whole song.

after you've done this about 6-7 times, your mind will start to associate that song with confidence and approaches. and you will feel great when you go out! you'll be able to get into your groove much much easier and be able to subconsciously push yourself. and whenever you feel off your game, or a little slow, just play the song and read a few of your affirmations, and you're back into it.

hope this helps, it really helped me alot.

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