I've been approaching HB's on campus and most of them seem to be heading somewhere most of the time so the interactions are often brief. What ways do I ensure that I get solid numbers? I've gotten a few numbers which lead to flakes or being stood up on a date.

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Develop enough attraction first. If you do that, Numbers are likely come naturally. And they wont lead to flakes = Solid Numbers

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As the poster above mentioned, develop enough attraction from her.

The best way to get solid numbers is to

#1 keep approaching girls, you wont get 10 solid numbers in the row specially if you are new to pick up, you need to get more comfortable with your personal game, simply by just doing it. ( after a while of approaching you'll start to notice patterns and you'll get really comfortable at the basics which is opening, flirting, hooking, vibing, investment and closing. ( this is useually the dynamic of what goes on in any successful pick up)

so work on the basics and dont worry too much about the results, its a by product, but remember you dont need to be perfect at this to get laid, you can get laid without knowing this, but not as much as a seasoned veteran. So dont be discouraged and think you have to be perfect. Practice makes perfect, so enjoy your journey.

#2 Have a life, i cant emphisize how important this is, have your shit together, health, and basically a positive state of mind. If you're breaking down after every failure you're simply being a desparate bitch and need to get a life.
The point is to continuely live your life and take action as a man whenever you want. It doesnt make or break you, theres more important things going on in life than your pathetic excuses for not approaching.
Theres fucking kids dieing from ebola and drinking ass water in africa, and theres world leaders fucking trains of women at the flick of a finger while manipulating whole societies.

#3 Get laid, a winner does whatever it takes.

#4 I think i just rambled on the previous 3 points so ill just wrap it up by saying the more you relax and take action the more comfortabe you will become, the more opportunities you'll pursue(approach), and the more solid your numbers will get. And i mean SOLID. You might have 4 rejections in a row but if you shake it off and still approach from a solid mindset of positive thinking, you will meet a girl who's SOLID.

#5 Keep in mind why alot of girls are not solid: Some have boyfriends, Some don't like your look, some dont give a fuck, some smelled your vagina.

Don't let em smell your vagina.

This is the gist of how to get solid numbers

The more confident you get, the more action you take towards personal growth, and the more you learn about how to be positive in life and eliminate negative believes, the better you will get.

And this takes time, but don't stop taking action.

Growth and action go hand in hand.

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Thanks for the replies mates. This is golden.

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee

Form a warm bond with the girl in your interaction. Don't be sarging/spamming just form warm bonds. It doesn't require a lot of time either. Under 5 mins is usually more than enough time.

Thanks oceanx. I've been approaching with the mindset of sarging/spamming and I don't stay in set for long especially when I'm cold approaching during the day on campus. Henceforth, I'll stay in set as long as possible to form warm bonds. I'll also focus on more quality than quantity.

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee

There is a difference between getting her ATTENTION, and being taken SERIOUSLY by a woman.

Make sure a girl takes you seriously when she gives you her number.

If you make her smile or laugh, or she thinks you're kind of cute so she gave you her number, that won't
mean anything.

You've gotten her attention, but she doesn't take you seriously.

If she took you seriously because you actually had a short conversation in which you've shown her
that you can be:

A) Serious and mature
B) Light and funny

Then you'll have something there.

Most women don't take guys seriously. And why should they? Guys act insecure, needy, submissive.

"Hey I saw you from over there and wanted to say Hi...what's up?" and you have a convo with her,
she will take you seriously.

If you're "Hey I need your help with something, who signs this song "can't get you out of my head"...?"
you'll get her attention, but she won't take you seriously.

Whenever someone asks me why the girls flake, I tell them to take a mirror and ask themselves, "Would I take
this guy seriously?"

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