hey guys, just wanted to get an opinion of something. i was in a takeaway to get food after pipe band practice. i ordered my food then leaned back against a wall while standing up and thumbs tucked in my pocket like i was a cowboy in a western movie, i didn't do this intentionally as i was relaxed and chilling waiting for food. then i got one of the tunes i was practicing at the pipe band practice in my head, so naturally i started bouncing a little and fingering the tune against my jeans as if i was playing the highland bagpipes and taping my foot to the beet. as i was doing this i then i noticed a cute girl glancing at me and smiling so i smiled back and went back to what i was doing without a care in the world. i felt her glancing back and forth at me, she was sat next to a tall skinny dude with tattoos on his arms who i can only assume that was her boyfriend. im small and a little on the big side. as they both picked up their order and self the girl took a passing glance at me and smiled and i smiled back.

i regret not opening her and starting a conversation as i was concerned what her boyfriend will do or say and will never know the reason why she was looking at me and smiling. maybe laughing at me to herself in a good way. so guys what do you thing about this situation and what could i have done to interact and is this an IOI?

or am i just thinking too much into this?

cheers

One girl found you interesting, one day, while you were completely relaxed and being yourself. Big deal..

You're reading way too much into it man. The girl was with her boyfriend, she eye flirted with you, and then went home to have sex with him. Happens all the time. And the more you get out there and motion comfortably in your own skin you will find this situation popping up over and over again.

Women stare at me all day everyday man. I walk confidently, I talk confidently, and I just love myself. That vibe is contagious and the more you emit that ,the more people will want to be apart of your life.

P.S.

Looking for "ioi's" is a semi outdated concept. You want to assume attraction. You want to have the confidence to think women are going to be into you before you even open them. It is that confidence that will generate attraction within the women you approach.

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How do you know he was her boyfriend if you didn't open them? And if you did open them and he was her boyfriend, you could at least talk to them and make friends with the boyfriend. If he is good enough to get a girl you are attracted to, he probably knows other girls he can introduce you to if you break into his social circle.

I would leave it... There are loads of women, especially in clubs you can have your pick out of hundreds upon hundreds. I would probably enjoy the situation and stay back. It's possible he wasn't her boyfriend, I know... But it is whatever, I'm just saying what I know I personally would do even if I know it's not the correct thing. I can't stand approaching couples personally, it's really awkward.

By the way forget IOIs. IOIs are completely irrelevant I can't even believe there are people and masters of game who used to tell people to wait for 3 IOIs, or to look for IOIs etc. Lol it's ridiculous. With any girl ever you just approach and make moves. If she's into you she will go along with it, if she's not then she will reject your advances and you grab the next girl. You don't need an IOI to do any of that so you might as well just forget they exist.

You should have approached in an ideal world.

IOI or not you should always open.

and it is always better to assume "if she is talking to me that means she likes me."

girls will fall out of attraction, get attracted again, and go up and down in a cycle before you sleep with them. not like us men when we see a girl we like and think "yeah i'll fuck her"

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