Here's a way I've found to consistently get opened and to make the opens I do more easy, natural and effective.
One of the tenets of the scientific method is that if you have a theory that explains a piece of data you should be able to PREDICT something you haven’t previously noticed.
If the thing you predicted can be verified in the real world then you gain more confidence in your theory and may even come upon new sources of data that will further expand your research, yielding better theories, yielding better principles, yielding more vagina. (I added that last part).
One of the theories that I derived is that women consider the opening of courtship to occur LONG before what we consider to be the opening of courtship. How many women COMPLAIN that men just don’t get it, that the WRONG men approach them, that men approach them in the WRONG way.
Well, shit, pretty much ALL of them, right?
We know that women don’t really have physical types that have any real meaning in a one-on-one seduction.
So, what, (the fuck) are they talking about?
If the WRONG men approach them then there must be “RIGHT” men. Who are these “RIGHT” men?
Remember how before the dating community you were pretty damn invisible to all women except maybe some random encounter you chalked up to an accident or, perhaps, a few girls in your social circle.
You didn’t know about Approach Invitations (AIs) and never even noticed them and, if a girl did look your way you wondered if there was toilet paper stuck to your shoe or there was something wrong with your hair.
Well, what I’m talking about happens EVEN earlier than an AI.
There is a scale of Non-Verbal Awareness that women engage in much, much earlier than men do. (Probably, because we are staring at tits as they float by, or their asses as they bob along).
The earlier you become aware of the steps on this scale, the sooner you can begin working it to your advantage. I consistently get opened (and pursued) by women.
This is new technology that I’ve been working on since July of last year and have used successfully in my last 10 or so lays. I want to get it out there so you guys can start experimenting with it. I am going to be talking MUCH more about it in the upcoming Propulsion System Webinar, including how to use it in ANY environment.
I’ve used it at bookstores, gas stations, bars even shopping malls and restaurants. It gets you opened about as much or more as Peacocking.
The Gradient Scale of Non-Verbal Communication
1. Extroversion to others and the environment
2. Intention to enter awareness of others (number 1 and 2 are interlocked)
3. Visual scans for awareness of others (you’ve seen this before, a girl is with a group of friends or a guy and as she talks she is looking around the room at others).
4. Exaggerated (or sexual) gestures and/or movement of body position to attract awareness of others
5. Visual focus on other(s) —> (could he be a Player in the a Game I want to play? (Dynamic 1 of Game Dynamics)) —> if so, give Approach Invitation.
6. Acknowledgment of the other person’s visual contact
7. A signal of Appreciation for the other person’s contact —-> (both girls and guys are often not successful with their AIs because they mess these two up)
8. Modification of Body Position in Space towards the person while keeping appreciation signals in
If all you did was noticed number 3 occurring, then locked eyes, acknowledge her eye contact with a smile and reorient your body towards her you’d be so far ahead of every chump in there, she’d probably open you.
Or, if you simply noticed number 3 occurring and then went and opened your success rate would sky rocket.
Using this simple awareness has gotten me opened more times than I can count now.
If you did this AND opened many sets, you would steal the entire venue. (I DO NOT recommend only using this for opening... a pickup artist should be OPENING and not sitting around waiting for shit to happen.)
Doing this ended up getting me one of my best LTRs. There were a few girls having a blast because one the birthday girl was drunk and acting crazy. I noticed one of the girls kept on doing #3.
The second time I noticed she had done it I made sure to be looking her way, she saw me looking, she looked back at her group for another minute or two. By this time I had tilted slightly to see her out of my peripheral. The next time she did #3 she limited her range. I caught her eyes exactly, I locked and gave a slight nod (#6), I smiled (#7), I turned ever so slightly (#8). She smiled back.
About 1 minute later she was standing next to me. But, she didn’t say anything.
I smiled real big. Next time she looked at me she opened with something lame. We talked. She told me about this game called “words with friends” for the iPhone. I told her my nerd-o-meter was going off big time.
Long story short, it was her way of getting my number.
We have a date set up. (She’s ridiculously hot so I don’t mind doing a date).
So, watch for #3 *AND* follow the steps exactly. If THEY are using this formula it is because it matches their reality. If you match it, too, you are head and shoulders above every other guy in the place.
I must’ve made quite an impression because this girl became my LTR for a couple of years! She almost moved in but I nixed it at the last moment because she was 24 and she wanted babies. I wasn’t sure if I wanted any more kids at the time and didn’t want to waste her valuable years.
Since then, I’ve refined this technology and surrounding conversation starting technologies to a much higher degree.
Am I PERFECT at opening? No, of course not, but because I’m able to do things like this my open to lay ratios are astounding. Further, I often start off at a much higher level of overall interaction than most guys who have to do the equivalent of trudging through mud!
Getting good at starting conversations, and even getting women to approach you, will expand your results a great deal. Every woman wants it to feel like, “It just happened!” and this is the easiest, surest way to give her that initial feeling.
Used to instruct with Mystery Method (aka Love Systems). Winged with Sinn. Created Sexual Framing, Same Night Lays and Game Dynamics.