How do I stop those sexy short girls with nice asses who are in the park going for a jog and run by you in about two seconds?
You are too needy and direct approaching is making it worse.
You need to use Indirect approaches until you can get women consistently showing you that they are interested.
This will show you in a less traumatic way what behaviors, voice tonality, etc are causing negative reactions in the women and you can remove them with practice until they are gone.
You are like this: "I haven't run a mile yet but I don't want to mess with that. I want to run a 10k right now."
Your interactions also lack any structure.
You need three standard openers that apply in the majority of situations you find yourself in.
Then, you need a short routine to convey your personality and make them laugh.
After they laugh and have relaxed ask them, "So what are you up to today/right now?"
Tell them what you are up to... then, tease them a bit...
If they are still laughing and talkative then set up a time to meet them (aka TimeBridge).
You can find tons of material to cover all these points on this forum.
Don't fly alone. Many thousands of guys have already made these mistakes. No point in frustrating yourself making such basic, elementary mistakes.
Used to instruct with Mystery Method (aka Love Systems). Winged with Sinn. Created Sexual Framing, Same Night Lays and Game Dynamics.