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PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:34 am 
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I want to open to this girl who's always at the library. Sometimes she is with a few guys. (All looked like alpha male types.)

She knows that i exist, as she asked me to watched her stuff for her once. (i planned to open during then, but anxiety hits)

What should I do? How should I approach her? How to Open & MSN/Number Close?


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:44 am 
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...she asked me to watched her stuff for her once. (i planned to open during then, but anxiety hits)
It would have been impossible to "open" her then, because SHE OPENED YOU. You can't open after an open lol...unless you're re-opening after a takeaway.

Try saying "hi." That always makes their panties melt. It's like a magic word, man 8)

After that, just say whatever you want to freakin say. Just don't dwell in your own head and let the words flow naturally.

Either that or you could stack canned openers and go into canned routines that aren't yours, then talk about your plans for the week and invite her out for a day 2, then number-close...

...or you could just say whatever you want to say with a smile and then later say, "hey it's nice talkin to ya. what's your number? we should hang out later."


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 8:59 am 
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next time when u see her, just say: "do u mind me watching your junk in your trunk?" lol jkjk

just go over and like: "hey, when u need someone to watch your stuff for ya, u know how to go for ; ) " then sit beside her, go from there


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 7:11 pm 
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Man, you just godda start talking to her. Use Papa's start looking through a pick-up lines book (joking) or be real with her. there are hundreds and hundreds of books which means thousands of conversations. pick up a travel book and ask where the best place is. pick up a food book and ask what she thinks about italian pizza vs. chicago style deep dish (the real kind, not pizza hut kind). be funny

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 7:02 pm 
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if she asked u to hold her stuff, i woulda been like "no srry, im about to go" cause that was a dlv fur u and now she thinks of u as that nice guy ho held her stuff and not that hot alpha guy ho has super high value and is so busy with friends he doesnt have time to hold my stuff.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 1:48 am 
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PUA: "So what are you reading?"...go from there man :D

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Ok take a look, what is she doing, what else is happening in the room, one thing you pointed out is that she's always in there, so use that to open 'hi, you here again, i hope you pay them rent/is this your second home/do you live here? What you reading/doing?'
or 'hi you're in here an arful lot/all the time, you must really like books.' Use something like that, what you think fits you best. You already have her trust and she kind of knows you, its a good situation to kick start your confidence in opening.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 3:02 am 
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library game is hard you have to be quiet


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 3:29 am 
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Alright....I have decided, next time i see her, i will just say hi and initiate a conversation. I suppose it will take a few times talking to her before i can number close since day game is a lot slower. I shall report the progress here. Thank you all so much!


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 3:43 am 
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No, no you got it backwards. Daygame is alot faster, well it is when it comes to number closing anyway.
I can just walk up a girl, say hi, tell her some crappy joke, and then number close. I # closed a girl in about 10 seconds once. It doesn't take alot of skill, its just knowing when to # close, and taking a chance (risk). Just have a conversation with her for a few minutes, then if things are going ok, then get her #.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:07 am 
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So at this point there are no rules really are there? its just whathever comes to mind and having the guts to go through with it? I hang out at the libary sometimes and i see opportunities but i never act on it ...cause they seem like young teenage girls with their bfs around..and im 21.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:20 am 
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yea i cant find any "legal" aged girls at the city library -


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:22 pm 
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yea i cant find any "legal" aged girls at the city library -
Dude you in Melbourne? If u are we should def talk...been meaning to talk to another person who is actually trying this PUA stuff.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:48 pm 
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ey the_henstar, im in melbourne man, pm me or something, itd b nice 2 exchange notes and venues with another PUA trainee so 2 say!


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:04 am 
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Say i'L hold ur stuff, only if u hold MY STUFF? then smile :)

She may be thinking of ur STUFF right then n ther. lol

So what ya reading? good opener


u can do stuff for her, but she gotta do stuff for u. demand tat she does it. So ur in ALPHA state n not only doing stuff for her.
Then to FOLLOW UP, next time u can just say walk up to her & say hey HOLD MY STUFF n smile:)

Don't jus pass up the opportunity to be with her. But when u'r wit her neg her a bit. So ur cocky & funny. Turn action into more action, but remember u lead the way



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