hi guys.i am naturally a shy guy.met this girl at orientation at my workplace.was shy to talk to her but eventually exchanged some words.the next day i overheard her saying to another collegue of mine that she come to work via public transport.she was complaning about how its a bitch to commute to work having to change trains 3 times every 10 minutes bla bla bla.too packed bla bla bla.she stays relatively near to my place.8 mins by car.

and then the unbelievable happened.i dont know where i got the balls from but i offered to drop her back after work and pick her up in the mornings before i go to work just so she can avoid the dreaded public transportation. to my delight, she complied and said yes. we exchanged numbers and i picked her up the next morning.we talked about general stuff. dont know if there were any IOIs but i reckon thats too early ? i dont know.im new to this GAME.i dropped her back.

i dont know what else to say.what can i say to get her to go on a date with me ? anything fresh ? she is a quiet person by nature and can be quite shy and doesnt talk much.

Keep picking her up or dropping her off, watever it is your doing, and when in the car joke around with her and have some fun, neg her (not to hard, playfully) and generally treat her like a little sister, Disqualify yourself and DHV, like the time you went rock climbing and your rope snapped and you were stuck up 10 metres in the air and totally fuckin scared, its not lying, its flirting haha. Perhaps tell her about the awesome new cafe, resturant or whatever and tell her she should come with you sometime...theres unlimited possibilites

but mainly have fun with it and keep your energy levels high, just dont go to long without escalating or you could get put into the friend zone

hope this helps

i sent her home yesterday and i kinda NEG her.i told her that she looks adorable when she laughs becaues her nose wiggles.she didnt seem to get the joke and i ended up saying sorry via text when i got home.she might get offended.im from south east asia and she is from a rural town and she is chinese educated(doesnt have a really good command in english) i told her sorry if i offended you but i meant it when i said that she is adorable.she then replied...its okay no need to say sorry no big deal.and then i blatantly said that no big deal that u are cute ? you must be very good at being cute. she then changed the topic.does this mean she doesnt get my joke ?

didnt pick her up today because she said that her cousin will drop her at work.texted her at work to see if she wanted to have lunch.she replied saying that she is having lunch with her collegue knowing that she hates the food at the cafeteria.

im stuck ! help.she doesnt seem to be interested