I guess I had to go through this phase after getting into the game and kudos to him for stealing. I have a fair bit to learn.

SO here is the situation:
Trying to open as much. So I'm early 20's in San Francisco, opened this teens to early 20's danish girl. Set was going well, we were walking throughout the set(should have asked to stop)

This mid 30's danish guy was ahead of us, somehow got into the set. He was very stern, low energy just said a couple of things to get into the set. I started talking to him and girl was in middle of both of us. After 2-3 mins of him talking to me and i was talking to him. He muttered something in danish to the girl and then out of nowhere said to me that we(him and the girl) are going to this place and he took the girl away.

I WAS LEFT STARTLED, CONFUSED with what just happened. how to avoid these situations? How to deal with them?

Obviously, i shouldn't have engaged that guy for long and asked her out instantly or something.

but how to go about it this effective manner?

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No worries, that has happened to everybody at LEAST once. He ended up leading the set and controlling the frame. The attention was centered around mostly him since you engaged him for so long and ignored the girl. He probably made a statement or asked a question to the girl about going somewhere in Danish and if she said nothing or gave positive body language, that is passive acceptance and he took your set. Next don't engage the guy at all. Be polite to him for a bit, but then bounce your girl for an instant for a coffee or drink or anywhere you can isolate.

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Thanks for being nice and encouraging!

Yeah you're right! But my question is you be polite for how long? And how to ignore him because he cleverly started talking to the girl and not me so I just keep talking to the girl and not the guy?

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Your in set - dude comes in , if you scence a threat, do not engage him at all, I feel most guys in the nigthtclub are trying to bag chicks anyway so assume they are all threats.
So dude comes in, do not engage him unless he engages you, and when he does give em short answers, one word answers, make it difficult for him ,always smiling(but really your tooling him) then immediately focus back on your target.

Also another big key is if you even get the feeling he tries to flirt with your taget immediately cut em off and cockblock, grab her attention back, if you dont you will seem weak in her eyes. When you dont allow him to flirt she will feel much more attracted to you for stepping up and claiming your bitch(;

Basically just keep doing what you were doing befor unless he interrupts. Most of the time girl is engaged with you she will ignore him, thats why having a strong men to woman frame off the start will make sure she wont be bored and switch to the new guy that comes in.

Keep her excited and she wont betray you, she left with him because you were not engaging enough. New shiny object comes along and engages you and you engage back he took the spotlight and jacked you. Dont let that happen again. Cutthroat. Be more aggresive.

Which means you gota get better at hooking your set.
How to do that?

Go in and be polarizing, which means you wont settle for mundane pointless chatter, you will escalate within her comfort levels, flirt, have fun and show genuine interest and lead and keep escalating as she grows more comfortable.


If you do that right and shes into you(thats how you make her into you)
Then brad pitt could com3 into your set he will need to work hard to get her off you.
Tighten up ! Good luck remember is either blow me or blow me out lol stimulate her emotions, is like crack to girls

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Yeah makes sense. Thanks for the advice! Hopefully I'll be more present in the moment.

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Another cool thing I find when guys try to break into your set is, if he does grab her attention when you were talking to her and he interrupts, simply listen to what he says and assume is a three way conversation, then just lead the thread into a one on one between you and her again, this will leave him out cold, but the only way it'll work is if she was already attracted to you and was really enjoying you befor he came in.

Theres so many ways you can tool guys is utterly hilarious. Another thing I like to do is inside joke, when dude comes in, I put my arm around her as if she was my girlfriend but in a joking way, this shatters the cockblocks world, but to do something like that you must set a frame from the very beggining that you like her and are there to flirt and get to know her. This justifies the physicality and is a great comfortbuilding and roleplay(I personally like touching girls I like)

No mundane friendzone chatter, never that. Set the man to woman frame right off the bat and you will dominate all.
Have fun with it.

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