Hey, this is my first post. I don't know if this belongs here, but I have a question about approaching a girl that works at a local grocery store.

So this girl is by far the cutest/sexiest girl that works at this place. The thing that really made me interested in her is this: Every time I go in there and she waits on me, she blushes. Blushes hard. One time I saw her from across the room and she still blushed lol.

So I'm thinking this girl just might be attracted to me. I personally think I am sexy, but I rarely talk to girls. This one though, I am definitely going to try for.

So how should I approach this? I have already asked other people working at this store about her (by description, I don't even know her name) and they never knew who I was talking about (or pretended not to).

I am concerned that she might be on to me digging her so maybe that's why she blushes in my presence? I don't know.

Should I ask her out in the store itself? Or maybe slip her a note to be more discreet? Or should I ask her when her break is/when she gets off and then initiate game?

Also, based on that information, which is all I know, how should my approach go once I do initiate contact? Straight to the point or what?

I'm clueless when it comes to the whole thing. The only girlfriend I had was in high school.

Assume she's interested and just go for it.

Tell her you've seen her around the last few times you were in, and you really think she looks gorgeous so you just had to talk to her... (that or ask her where something is... it really doesn't matter how you open... just start talking).

I would not go for a note. You're not in high school.

try the hired gun apocalypse opener.

"hi, you're gorgeous"
"what time do you finish?"
"you should come over to mine"
#close

boom.

She obviously knows you fancy her. You've asked about her. That's a big showing of interest in her. She's probably blushing because she knows you like her and wants you to ask her out.

Just walk up to her and shoot the shit. When she's waiting on you and you're buying stuff start off with a simple "Busy day?"(Talking about work) and give her a smile. If it's a nice day out or a bad day just say "Great weather we're having, eh?/ I hate this weather." She'll reply then, if no one's near just say she's cute. If she's not interested she'll feed you a line like "I have a boyfriend" or some other bollocks. Worst case scenario? She has a boyfriend. If she does you stand your ground and just say "Still doesn't change the fact you're cute." Keep smiling and carry on as normal. Best case scenario? She blushes says thanks and then you can ask her if she has any plans later on. "Got any plans tonight?" If you feel it just say "You know, I know this great place that does amazing drinks. Up for it?"

Really, it's that simple. The hardest thing about it is your fear of rejection. Once you master that you really won't find anything hard about it.

mixed feelings on the apocalypse opener, I think it's too far out of a girls reality for day game and it obviously has the potential to scare the girl off - in this case, even if she is interested then it may just kill it completely.

I'd be interested in hearing others thoughts on the apoc opener and your results using this.