| I've been getting better flirting as I've gotten more confident. In fact, yesterday, I practiced an insight I hadn't done previous due to lack of nerve.
I'd heard from a speaker on Youtube that in the conversational pauses, if you wait, the girl will fill them circa three-quarters of the time. Well, yerterday, I tried it on an eight, a hired gun at the gym, and she kept the conversation going twice that way. This insight, and vote of confidence, will make things easier, going forward.
Oh, and I flirted with another girl there, yesterday. Commenting on her dyed hair (I called her a witch, a week, or so, earlier) I asked if it was to keep men from hitting on her. She said no, to which I asked if it was working, to which she burst out laughing.
Later, after seeing her flirt with someone else, I asked if he was her fiance. She said no, to which I said, "Too bad; I was hoping you'd introduce me." All this got me another burst of laughter, and the assurance she will intorduce me.
Raised the stakes, I did; gotta put up or shutup if she does, but I'm at least being confident, and that's presently working. _________________ If you ever get the idea that I'm a crazy contrarian, just get a whiff my blogs:
http://noitartst.com/
&:
http://thevanitymirror.com/
(I think I'm provocative in a good way; see if you concur!)
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