I met this woman at a club who is in my social circles. At the time she expressed interest in hanging out. I never try to talk to women that I'm interested in VIA Facebook. I think of it's impersonal and a waste of time. In my view it's better to be direct and get the number. Anyway, I want to establish a conversation with her but a week or two has gone by... would saying something racy, "misinterpretation flirting"or "disqualifier" be bad to use in a opener??? I figure recalling when I met her might be good.... it seems the way you flirt with people in your social circles has its risks

(((the woman is upperclass latin American and in her early thirties... )))