Hey, i'm very new to this but i've been reading about pua stuff for a couple of months now. Thanks guys i've got some great tips from here and i'll try and add any that I pick up in my journeys! But anyway... I do have some major sticking points but i'm trying to sarge as much as possible. Day game seems more of my comfort zone and in the past, on the streets/shops/parks or whatever I don't have much anxiety approaching people and making conversation, I think generally i'm a sociable guy. However, when it comes to HB's or even just pretty girls and sometimes even girls in general I had overwhelming approach anxiety, I always feel like i'm being creepy. Recently however i've started taking vallium, don't worry guys i'm not abusing it at all, and my approach anxiety nearly completely disappears, just yesterday a beautiful 9HB was walking towards me and I had no problem opening her with canned material (cheers guys again!) and got into the flow but eventually my sticking points came back. Even though I fucked up in the sarge I felt so great just being able to calmly open an absolute stunner. Basically, if you're having approach anxiety try using vallium, it works great and if you live in London I can help you get some.

You won't need any valium if you have an abudance mindset.

Sure you will only get there once you sleep with a lot of women.

But London... it's sure not be any problem to you since you are a sociable guy.


Lastly, please do understand that whether she's HB9 or 10, she's still a woman, she needs love & appreciation from a man too.

Hope this help
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Well i've been living in London for about 2 years now and i've had approach anxiety the whole time. It can really get you down especially in the summer when all the HB9/10's are out in the day. But since i've started taking vallium things have got a whole lot easier.

The secret to your problem, and something I deal with today is the honest and simple truth that all men experience approach anxiety EVEN THE PROS but if they can get over it (and here's the trick ;D) by saying "FUCK YOU" to their emotions and fears (within the three second rule), then it's as easy as doing just that. Go in with a "Fuck You" attitude about the whole interaction (1 you don't put them on a pedestal, 2 automatic neg mentality to counteract the bitch shield). As if you really don't care to do this (and you have sweeter pickings to choose from)- you're just gaming with the girl purely for entertainment, but the goal is to see that BOTH OF YOU ENJOY THOSE PRECIOUS SECONDS,MINUTES (get in get out, keep her wanting to come back) ENTERTAINING EACH OTHER. Remember women go off of "feelings" and that's all based on the interaction "In the moment" IT'S ALWAYS 'IN THE MOMENT' and that's how women process life in general. That's how they process "human interaction". The more you can make her "feel" good around you through the ATTENTION (Always pay attention when it counts - YOU FIRST, then her) during the 'interaction' <-- keeps coming back right? the more she'll want from you, she'll draw to you without you even having to notice it (or act like you don't notice) but true game is going all the way, just don't half-ass the whole process, DON'T GO TO FAR either, give her just enough to reel her in more and more - IOI's is how you measure WHEN IT'S OK WITH YOU...WITH YOU!! to take it to the next level. No matter what this is YOUR GAME, regardless of how hard she may try to fight it. Conceal your intentions, feed her what she wants but how you want her to take it, she'll be feeding out the palm of your hands (literally!) along with the rest of the women lined up to get a piece of you. WOMEN RAGE OVER WHAT THEY -CAN'T- HAVE. GL my friend!!

Ah well thanks for the reply buddy, but I think you misunderstood. I guess what i'm trying to say is that I have extremely less approach anxiety because of vallium, it really give that "FUCK IT" mentality.

If you're still using Valium, I would recommend a different approach. Anxiety is just a symptom of heightened sensitivity. Instead of reacting to the feeling of being anxious and using drug medication to counter it, try naturally responding to the sensation by simply embracing it. Like I said, most people are naturally acute to the presence of others around them. As such, they are just as sensitive to your presence as you are to theirs. We are all naturally anxious; so getting past that factor, I would just say take the sensation head on. It's merely your fight or flight system reacting to outside stimuli. In those moments, you gotta stand up and just fight it. Eventually you'll get use to it, even mastering it to some degree. That increased sensitivity will inevitably show through your body language because of how the mind will perceive which it turn affects how it communicates to the body. Once you put yourself in that state of "Mind-over-Matter" controlling your perceptions of the situational stimuli around you will become like taking candy from a baby. Almost as if that saying "The World is Yours" becomes a visible state of mind. I hope this can be of some supportive use to you. You will become the force of influence, indomitable to the influences that would challenge your own. You may even be seen as a threat! God forbid anyone would perceive you as such, but that's the kind of energy/power you will possess. Like an untamible lion that broke out of it's cage and can't stop from going berserk on everything in it's path. That my friend, is when you'll face a even greater challenge. Controlling the unstoppable beast within you that you are

I try to stick by the 3 second rule. I tend to over think the situation if I hesitate and sometimes it doesn't go as well as it should. So if I see a girl, I give myself 3 seconds to grow a pair and talk to her even though my mind tells me no. I feel like its a good way to build up the confidence to the point where anxiety no longer occurs.

Yeah I mean I still go by the 3 second rule but I don't even think about it, everybody is bogged down in the "theory" of the game, all i'm saying is that vallium is a practical solution to a common problem.