Gambit: A gambit is a strategic move, often in chess but also in politics or business, where a player sacrifices something up front for future gain.


This move takes a bit a balls, solid cold approach and a genuine freedom from outcome. It is basically throwing away a set simply to show your willingness to do so. It turns the tables and has girls approaching you.

Step one: open a group of girls at a table. Be direct, but don't hit hard. Address the whole group. This is not where you hook them.

Step two: Chat until they want you to buy drinks to stick around.

Step three: Laugh at the idea. "No thanks! lol. First drinks... then diamonds, cars, houses... haha... I'm the 'other guy'. I'll help you spend the divorce settlement".

Step four: When shocked and offended, they gang up on you and tell you to get lost. "Well, you're done here" or something like that is what they say. Shrug, show a "fuck this" but happy, fun attitude, "talk to you girls later".

Step five: Sit at the bar and wait for them to show up nest to you, one by one or in twos.

Step six: Re-open.


The key to this trick is that you walk away with them looking like money grubbers, gold diggers. They know they failed a test, but they didn't know they were taking one. No girl wants to think they are superficial and materialistic, and they certainly don't want a cool guy who was friendly, polite and confident to think of them that way. Girls HATE being judged, and you've given them exactly nothing to judge you poorly on. They'll want to redeem themselves. They will like you, and so they won't want you to think they are greedy losers only interested in your money. You, on the other hand, don't seem to give a fuck about them because you were happy to walk away and get on with having your own fun.

Ummmm i dont know where you sarge at but what you wrote seems like a perfect routine to end up in the provider zone. You dont open a group of girls and buy them all drinks. According to your scenario, the girls told you to leave because you disqualified yourself and they werent interested in you sexually. But one thing i can promise you. If any of those girls come by you at the bar, its moat likely not cuz she's interested, more like she wants another drink.
In that scenario you acted like a beta afc
You want to be an alpha pua
Alpha is walk up, open set, dhv, attract, isolate
So in other words, you get a bottle in vip and invite the whole group to your table for a drink
This way you remain in control of the situation. They see that you have social status and now want to be around you.
Nice guys finish last!!! I repeat that again. Nice guys finish last!!!
They dont care what you think of them after you already bought everyone drinks.
Im pretty sure after they kicked u out of the group, they said "what a sucker"

Can't see this working.

1. If the girls are that rude to blow you out when you don't buy them a drink, they wouldn't have a change of conscience because you walked away.
2. You're sitting at the bar, for them to come up to you. Most places I go to, you're already fighting for a place at the bar. So even if you get a seat, if the place is packed, they probably won't even see you if they care. And if they DO care, and DO see you, they probably wouldnt put in the effort to position themselves near to you to talk again.Plus, you'll be wasting time waiting.

If the girls are that rude, you walking away won't be a step that builds much attraction. Maybe if you hooked a hotter girl and re-opened, they may talk to you again. But it's never a good idea, or rarely is, to wait for women to make a move. Especially if they didn't like you that much in the first place.

It does work. Period. It may have to do with how I look or act in the environment. 6 times out of 6 girls from these groups have hovered or reopened me at the bar. They are always very nice and smiley, and you get a lot smiles and waves from a distance. They react the way they feel they are expected to, and you don't react the way you are expected too.

The first time I did this their super cute alpha jumped up, yelling and shoving me infront of the whole place. She later pulled up next to me with a huge smile and gave a huge "Hi!" the instant I turned to her. They just act like nothing happened and that you'd already met. The second time, some of the girls came to the bar to order the shots bought by some other guys. The could have got them from the server, or the men could have ordered them, but instead the pulled up next to me, smiled, chatted, went away, drank and came right back to me.

I actually haven't used it since posting this because something has changed for me and the trend is for people to offer me drinks, so I forgot all about. Currently girls who approach me at the bar notice I don't offer a drink, instead of asking, they offer so they can sit down and engage me with no bullshit. Last week and HB 9.5 did that after a glance 20 mins before. I can't say I know exactly what it is, but I clearly look like someone girls want to talk to. It occurs to me now that this gambit is not the key, but rather that girls want to approach me anyway. The gambit is just an arousing first interaction.

Oh... And women do make a move, it's called "hovering" or "orbiting". It's the only move most have, but they use it all the time. With proper "eye game" you can invite them to do it. Scan the room for eye ball, lock eyes with one you like and smile. If she doesn't issue an "appoach tell", which is a mirrored reflex response to your smile, but keeps looking then she likes you, knows you like her, but then is not a comfortable time for you to approach. This is very common for HBs with a boyfriend. That's your invitation. Then just social at the bar and when you aren't thinking about it you'll turn, see that pretty face right next to you after she has pealed away from her group, and she will likely be asking the bartender for a glass of water, a phone charger, or some other bullshit excuse. Open.

there are many different scenarios relating to whether or not you should buy a girl a drink.

if the purchase of a drink is a prerequisite to their continued attention, that to me is a shit test and why the gambit works.

inviting them to your table is a form of DHV.

offering to buy them one to make them like you is an obvious DLV.

This is definitely going into my repertoire.